I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
If you have to shave your penis, you have some issues.DrD77 said:should i shave my penis, trim it, or just let it grow out long? what do most women prefer?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
yes it does.LostAndConfused said:don't it look bigger when you shave?
you just denied this whole forum saying.. "would you really ______ because guys on the internet said..."Stud said:would you really shave your penis because guys on the internet said girls will like it?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
sorry but the girls are American too pal... and how would a guy like you know about gay debates on the internet, i have not once came or even nearly came across gay debates on the internet.. care to explain?meitenesrigas said:No wonder you guys can't get any.
(1) Girls don't care.
(2) Girls find porn stars disgusting.
(3) Stick with girls who will get bright red even thinking about pubic hair (you will have to leave America for this one).
(4) Gay men debate this topic all the time on the Internet.
(5) Another sign of the total emasculation of the American man.
(6) And remember, GIRLS DON'T CARE!
meitenesrigas said:No wonder you guys can't get any.
(1) Girls don't care.
(2) Girls find porn stars disgusting.
(3) Stick with girls who will get bright red even thinking about pubic hair (you will have to leave America for this one).
(4) Gay men debate this topic all the time on the Internet.
(5) Another sign of the total emasculation of the American man.
(6) And remember, GIRLS DON'T CARE!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
shave downwards, and from side to side. i think the red bumps are ingrown hairs, i could be wrong but yea.. or they just might be skin irritationsDrD77 said:i think im just going to keep her trimmed for now. not too long, not too short. i've shaved before and don't like the hassle and i get these red bumps, although my d!ick looks bigger.
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.