You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If you have to shave your penis, you have some issues.DrD77 said:should i shave my penis, trim it, or just let it grow out long? what do most women prefer?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
yes it does.LostAndConfused said:don't it look bigger when you shave?
you just denied this whole forum saying.. "would you really ______ because guys on the internet said..."Stud said:would you really shave your penis because guys on the internet said girls will like it?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
sorry but the girls are American too pal... and how would a guy like you know about gay debates on the internet, i have not once came or even nearly came across gay debates on the internet.. care to explain?meitenesrigas said:No wonder you guys can't get any.
(1) Girls don't care.
(2) Girls find porn stars disgusting.
(3) Stick with girls who will get bright red even thinking about pubic hair (you will have to leave America for this one).
(4) Gay men debate this topic all the time on the Internet.
(5) Another sign of the total emasculation of the American man.
(6) And remember, GIRLS DON'T CARE!
meitenesrigas said:No wonder you guys can't get any.
(1) Girls don't care.
(2) Girls find porn stars disgusting.
(3) Stick with girls who will get bright red even thinking about pubic hair (you will have to leave America for this one).
(4) Gay men debate this topic all the time on the Internet.
(5) Another sign of the total emasculation of the American man.
(6) And remember, GIRLS DON'T CARE!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
shave downwards, and from side to side. i think the red bumps are ingrown hairs, i could be wrong but yea.. or they just might be skin irritationsDrD77 said:i think im just going to keep her trimmed for now. not too long, not too short. i've shaved before and don't like the hassle and i get these red bumps, although my d!ick looks bigger.
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.