You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If you have to shave your penis, you have some issues.DrD77 said:should i shave my penis, trim it, or just let it grow out long? what do most women prefer?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
yes it does.LostAndConfused said:don't it look bigger when you shave?
you just denied this whole forum saying.. "would you really ______ because guys on the internet said..."Stud said:would you really shave your penis because guys on the internet said girls will like it?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
sorry but the girls are American too pal... and how would a guy like you know about gay debates on the internet, i have not once came or even nearly came across gay debates on the internet.. care to explain?meitenesrigas said:No wonder you guys can't get any.
(1) Girls don't care.
(2) Girls find porn stars disgusting.
(3) Stick with girls who will get bright red even thinking about pubic hair (you will have to leave America for this one).
(4) Gay men debate this topic all the time on the Internet.
(5) Another sign of the total emasculation of the American man.
(6) And remember, GIRLS DON'T CARE!
meitenesrigas said:No wonder you guys can't get any.
(1) Girls don't care.
(2) Girls find porn stars disgusting.
(3) Stick with girls who will get bright red even thinking about pubic hair (you will have to leave America for this one).
(4) Gay men debate this topic all the time on the Internet.
(5) Another sign of the total emasculation of the American man.
(6) And remember, GIRLS DON'T CARE!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
shave downwards, and from side to side. i think the red bumps are ingrown hairs, i could be wrong but yea.. or they just might be skin irritationsDrD77 said:i think im just going to keep her trimmed for now. not too long, not too short. i've shaved before and don't like the hassle and i get these red bumps, although my d!ick looks bigger.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.