"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Do fat girls and in-shape girls like the same kind of guys?
- Thread starter Demystify
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
just do a brief readig of some of the posts on this site.
Gangster Of Love said:
Well, what I should've said in the original post was that fat girls tend to like a skinnier guy or a much fatter guy and it seems that in-shape girls don't like either of these guys, but once again maybe I'm wrong.
Now my gf happens to be a HB6 (for arguments sake). Does that mean I refer her over say Jessica Alba? Of course not....it just happens to be the best I can do for now.
So for your case, its fair to assume that, the skinny or fat guys, i.e. the less desirable guys are the best they can do. So they date them while secretly having crushes on (or perhaps even going further) on the athletic/better looking guys.
oakraiderz2
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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omfgDuffdog said:
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The funny thing is that fat chicks have the same snobby attitude and exectations as any other girl. They don't consider themselves overweight, but just with extra meat on their bones. My simple answer would be yes.
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Do fat/ugly/loser guys like uglier girls more? No but it's all they can get. At the end of the day they still jerk off to the hot girls who they have no chance with in real life.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It all comes down to personal preference. Some girls like muscular dudes, some like them skinny, some like them with a little bit of meat. I'm going to say that its few and far between though that a woman goes to a club with the thought of bagging her a fat ass.
In the end, it's game that wins out over looks. Biggie Smalls got just as much poon as tupac, ya dig?
oakraiderz2
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Once again, you can compare celebrities to the average joe.magickarl said:
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Demystify said:
They definitely like the same types of guys, but what happens, is that, uglies and fatties have MUCH less options, therefore you'll always notice, they're MUCH more likely to approach guys, are more aggressive with guys, MUCH easier lays(don't require game), etc. etc. These are under-sexed women. They "settle" for the guy virtually all the time, and the guy, 99% of the time, settles for them as well. They almost never get the guy they want, and end up settling, whereas the hottie, virtually ALWAYS has sex with the guy she wants.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Actually, I wouldn't be too sure about that generalizationmagickarl said:
Even though they were both hot shot, Alpha-male rap starts who could get into the pants of almost any women they laid eyes upon as a result of their sheer celebrity and fame...... :yes:
Unlike Biggie-Smalls, Tupac seems like the kind of guy who was rolling in pvssy his entire life ----> even before any of them hit it big
