"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Do fat girls and in-shape girls like the same kind of guys?
- Thread starter Demystify
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Gangster Of Love
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just do a brief readig of some of the posts on this site.
Gangster Of Love said:
Well, what I should've said in the original post was that fat girls tend to like a skinnier guy or a much fatter guy and it seems that in-shape girls don't like either of these guys, but once again maybe I'm wrong.
Now my gf happens to be a HB6 (for arguments sake). Does that mean I refer her over say Jessica Alba? Of course not....it just happens to be the best I can do for now.
So for your case, its fair to assume that, the skinny or fat guys, i.e. the less desirable guys are the best they can do. So they date them while secretly having crushes on (or perhaps even going further) on the athletic/better looking guys.
oakraiderz2
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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omfgDuffdog said:
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The funny thing is that fat chicks have the same snobby attitude and exectations as any other girl. They don't consider themselves overweight, but just with extra meat on their bones. My simple answer would be yes.
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Do fat/ugly/loser guys like uglier girls more? No but it's all they can get. At the end of the day they still jerk off to the hot girls who they have no chance with in real life.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It all comes down to personal preference. Some girls like muscular dudes, some like them skinny, some like them with a little bit of meat. I'm going to say that its few and far between though that a woman goes to a club with the thought of bagging her a fat ass.
In the end, it's game that wins out over looks. Biggie Smalls got just as much poon as tupac, ya dig?
oakraiderz2
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Once again, you can compare celebrities to the average joe.magickarl said:
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Demystify said:
They definitely like the same types of guys, but what happens, is that, uglies and fatties have MUCH less options, therefore you'll always notice, they're MUCH more likely to approach guys, are more aggressive with guys, MUCH easier lays(don't require game), etc. etc. These are under-sexed women. They "settle" for the guy virtually all the time, and the guy, 99% of the time, settles for them as well. They almost never get the guy they want, and end up settling, whereas the hottie, virtually ALWAYS has sex with the guy she wants.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Actually, I wouldn't be too sure about that generalizationmagickarl said:
Even though they were both hot shot, Alpha-male rap starts who could get into the pants of almost any women they laid eyes upon as a result of their sheer celebrity and fame...... :yes:
Unlike Biggie-Smalls, Tupac seems like the kind of guy who was rolling in pvssy his entire life ----> even before any of them hit it big
