"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Do fat girls and in-shape girls like the same kind of guys?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Gangster Of Love
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just do a brief readig of some of the posts on this site.
Gangster Of Love said:
Well, what I should've said in the original post was that fat girls tend to like a skinnier guy or a much fatter guy and it seems that in-shape girls don't like either of these guys, but once again maybe I'm wrong.
Now my gf happens to be a HB6 (for arguments sake). Does that mean I refer her over say Jessica Alba? Of course not....it just happens to be the best I can do for now.
So for your case, its fair to assume that, the skinny or fat guys, i.e. the less desirable guys are the best they can do. So they date them while secretly having crushes on (or perhaps even going further) on the athletic/better looking guys.
oakraiderz2
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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The funny thing is that fat chicks have the same snobby attitude and exectations as any other girl. They don't consider themselves overweight, but just with extra meat on their bones. My simple answer would be yes.
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Do fat/ugly/loser guys like uglier girls more? No but it's all they can get. At the end of the day they still jerk off to the hot girls who they have no chance with in real life.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It all comes down to personal preference. Some girls like muscular dudes, some like them skinny, some like them with a little bit of meat. I'm going to say that its few and far between though that a woman goes to a club with the thought of bagging her a fat ass.
In the end, it's game that wins out over looks. Biggie Smalls got just as much poon as tupac, ya dig?
oakraiderz2
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Once again, you can compare celebrities to the average joe.magickarl said:
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Demystify said:
They definitely like the same types of guys, but what happens, is that, uglies and fatties have MUCH less options, therefore you'll always notice, they're MUCH more likely to approach guys, are more aggressive with guys, MUCH easier lays(don't require game), etc. etc. These are under-sexed women. They "settle" for the guy virtually all the time, and the guy, 99% of the time, settles for them as well. They almost never get the guy they want, and end up settling, whereas the hottie, virtually ALWAYS has sex with the guy she wants.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Actually, I wouldn't be too sure about that generalizationmagickarl said:
Even though they were both hot shot, Alpha-male rap starts who could get into the pants of almost any women they laid eyes upon as a result of their sheer celebrity and fame...... :yes:
Unlike Biggie-Smalls, Tupac seems like the kind of guy who was rolling in pvssy his entire life ----> even before any of them hit it big
