"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do Don Juans intimidate women?

SeymourCake

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Because we're so different from an AFC? All their life, they have probably been manipulating these chumps into thinking they're in love when they have no clue.

What happens when they come across a real Don Juan who knows how to play his cards right? If she can't manipulate us because we see it coming from a mile away, would they avoid us or is it that what makes us attractive to them?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Too broad and general, probably some do, and some don't, and with the reasons and rationale you have already mentioned.

Plus a woman who digs a DJ today might totally change and asks for an AFC tomorrow and changes back the day after and so on.

A good way to look at this might be not to care how women think/act unless it's to your advantage to archive certain goals, be it getting laid, love, money extortion (joke!).
 

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SeymourCake said:
Because we're so different from an AFC? All their life, they have probably been manipulating these chumps into thinking they're in love when they have no clue.

What happens when they come across a real Don Juan who knows how to play his cards right? If she can't manipulate us because we see it coming from a mile away, would they avoid us or is it that what makes us attractive to them?
WTF kind of question is this? Who bangs the most chicks? Who do the chicks fall in love with?
 

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A variety of men bang women and women have a variety of men who they fall in love with. Stop generalizing the whole sex based off assumptions your AFC eyes see.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dont you guys think a real DJ would know to make a girl feel comfortable??? A DJ istn someone who chicks think is hot from across the room. A dj is one who goes up to the girl and MAKES her attracted, and COMFORTABLE, thus not intimidated. Obviously, the OP is not a DJ (not saying I am either though) or else this would not be a question.
 
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