"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do Don Juans intimidate women?

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Because we're so different from an AFC? All their life, they have probably been manipulating these chumps into thinking they're in love when they have no clue.

What happens when they come across a real Don Juan who knows how to play his cards right? If she can't manipulate us because we see it coming from a mile away, would they avoid us or is it that what makes us attractive to them?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Too broad and general, probably some do, and some don't, and with the reasons and rationale you have already mentioned.

Plus a woman who digs a DJ today might totally change and asks for an AFC tomorrow and changes back the day after and so on.

A good way to look at this might be not to care how women think/act unless it's to your advantage to archive certain goals, be it getting laid, love, money extortion (joke!).
 

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SeymourCake said:
Because we're so different from an AFC? All their life, they have probably been manipulating these chumps into thinking they're in love when they have no clue.

What happens when they come across a real Don Juan who knows how to play his cards right? If she can't manipulate us because we see it coming from a mile away, would they avoid us or is it that what makes us attractive to them?
WTF kind of question is this? Who bangs the most chicks? Who do the chicks fall in love with?
 

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A variety of men bang women and women have a variety of men who they fall in love with. Stop generalizing the whole sex based off assumptions your AFC eyes see.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dont you guys think a real DJ would know to make a girl feel comfortable??? A DJ istn someone who chicks think is hot from across the room. A dj is one who goes up to the girl and MAKES her attracted, and COMFORTABLE, thus not intimidated. Obviously, the OP is not a DJ (not saying I am either though) or else this would not be a question.
 
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