"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do Don Juans intimidate women?

SeymourCake

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Because we're so different from an AFC? All their life, they have probably been manipulating these chumps into thinking they're in love when they have no clue.

What happens when they come across a real Don Juan who knows how to play his cards right? If she can't manipulate us because we see it coming from a mile away, would they avoid us or is it that what makes us attractive to them?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Too broad and general, probably some do, and some don't, and with the reasons and rationale you have already mentioned.

Plus a woman who digs a DJ today might totally change and asks for an AFC tomorrow and changes back the day after and so on.

A good way to look at this might be not to care how women think/act unless it's to your advantage to archive certain goals, be it getting laid, love, money extortion (joke!).
 

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SeymourCake said:
Because we're so different from an AFC? All their life, they have probably been manipulating these chumps into thinking they're in love when they have no clue.

What happens when they come across a real Don Juan who knows how to play his cards right? If she can't manipulate us because we see it coming from a mile away, would they avoid us or is it that what makes us attractive to them?
WTF kind of question is this? Who bangs the most chicks? Who do the chicks fall in love with?
 

SeymourCake

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A variety of men bang women and women have a variety of men who they fall in love with. Stop generalizing the whole sex based off assumptions your AFC eyes see.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

horaholic

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Dont you guys think a real DJ would know to make a girl feel comfortable??? A DJ istn someone who chicks think is hot from across the room. A dj is one who goes up to the girl and MAKES her attracted, and COMFORTABLE, thus not intimidated. Obviously, the OP is not a DJ (not saying I am either though) or else this would not be a question.
 
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