"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do Don Juans intimidate women?

SeymourCake

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Because we're so different from an AFC? All their life, they have probably been manipulating these chumps into thinking they're in love when they have no clue.

What happens when they come across a real Don Juan who knows how to play his cards right? If she can't manipulate us because we see it coming from a mile away, would they avoid us or is it that what makes us attractive to them?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Too broad and general, probably some do, and some don't, and with the reasons and rationale you have already mentioned.

Plus a woman who digs a DJ today might totally change and asks for an AFC tomorrow and changes back the day after and so on.

A good way to look at this might be not to care how women think/act unless it's to your advantage to archive certain goals, be it getting laid, love, money extortion (joke!).
 
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SeymourCake said:
Because we're so different from an AFC? All their life, they have probably been manipulating these chumps into thinking they're in love when they have no clue.

What happens when they come across a real Don Juan who knows how to play his cards right? If she can't manipulate us because we see it coming from a mile away, would they avoid us or is it that what makes us attractive to them?
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WTF kind of question is this? Who bangs the most chicks? Who do the chicks fall in love with?
 
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A variety of men bang women and women have a variety of men who they fall in love with. Stop generalizing the whole sex based off assumptions your AFC eyes see.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dont you guys think a real DJ would know to make a girl feel comfortable??? A DJ istn someone who chicks think is hot from across the room. A dj is one who goes up to the girl and MAKES her attracted, and COMFORTABLE, thus not intimidated. Obviously, the OP is not a DJ (not saying I am either though) or else this would not be a question.
 
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