Okay, so this girl i've been goign after for the past few weeks has fianllypaid off...Were both getting our licenses on Monday and she asked me to hang out with her afterwards. Now I've hung out with her AND her friends with me AND my friends but I've NEVER hung out with her alone and I'm getting worried its goign to be awkward....can someone give me some ideas on what to do with this girl.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
dk wtf to do
- Thread starter toddC
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Master Disaster
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 30, 2005
- Messages
- 510
- Reaction score
- 2
Take her to a place that has something to be watched but you still talk to her. So there are no akward moments. Like a football game you still talk to her but you can also watch the game. If you take her to a movie you'll still have akward moments because you can't talk in movies. Just take her to somewhere where you have entertainment but you may still talk.
Smooth Player 056
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 6, 2005
- Messages
- 868
- Reaction score
- 3
She has already given you the biggest sign of interest by requesting to hang out with you. You already have her hooked, wich is good, the next step is to create some rapport and to get her more comfortable around you. Since you both got your license tell her your a better driver, she will most likely object, have her prove it to you. The when she does you can bust her on every small thing (ie. going 1mph above the limit, tell her she drives like your grandma etc.)
When you hang with her just follow the phases of seduction.
When you hang with her just follow the phases of seduction.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
yea i kinda figured taht when asking me to hang out that was a pretty big sign, however i don't really hang out with 1 girl at one time its usually my friends and her friends when we hang out so i'm just worried about what to talk about or what to do but yea thanks SP
*edit*also i was just thinking...do you think if i bought this girl a bday card it would be a bad thing or a good thing? I've known her for about 5 years but we really haven't talked in about 4 years up until about 3 weeks ago.
*edit*also i was just thinking...do you think if i bought this girl a bday card it would be a bad thing or a good thing? I've known her for about 5 years but we really haven't talked in about 4 years up until about 3 weeks ago.
Last edited:
arutha
Senior Don Juan
Birthday cards are overrated. It one of those things that really doesn't matter either way, a day later no one will remember or mention it whichever way you went and no one will care.
If you want to, then do, if you don't want to then don't. Simple as that.
Unless she invites you to a party or you're doing something for her birthday or something, then do.
If you want to, then do, if you don't want to then don't. Simple as that.
Unless she invites you to a party or you're doing something for her birthday or something, then do.