Okay, so this girl i've been goign after for the past few weeks has fianllypaid off...Were both getting our licenses on Monday and she asked me to hang out with her afterwards. Now I've hung out with her AND her friends with me AND my friends but I've NEVER hung out with her alone and I'm getting worried its goign to be awkward....can someone give me some ideas on what to do with this girl.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dk wtf to do
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Take her to a place that has something to be watched but you still talk to her. So there are no akward moments. Like a football game you still talk to her but you can also watch the game. If you take her to a movie you'll still have akward moments because you can't talk in movies. Just take her to somewhere where you have entertainment but you may still talk.
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She has already given you the biggest sign of interest by requesting to hang out with you. You already have her hooked, wich is good, the next step is to create some rapport and to get her more comfortable around you. Since you both got your license tell her your a better driver, she will most likely object, have her prove it to you. The when she does you can bust her on every small thing (ie. going 1mph above the limit, tell her she drives like your grandma etc.)
When you hang with her just follow the phases of seduction.
When you hang with her just follow the phases of seduction.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
yea i kinda figured taht when asking me to hang out that was a pretty big sign, however i don't really hang out with 1 girl at one time its usually my friends and her friends when we hang out so i'm just worried about what to talk about or what to do but yea thanks SP
*edit*also i was just thinking...do you think if i bought this girl a bday card it would be a bad thing or a good thing? I've known her for about 5 years but we really haven't talked in about 4 years up until about 3 weeks ago.
*edit*also i was just thinking...do you think if i bought this girl a bday card it would be a bad thing or a good thing? I've known her for about 5 years but we really haven't talked in about 4 years up until about 3 weeks ago.
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arutha
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Birthday cards are overrated. It one of those things that really doesn't matter either way, a day later no one will remember or mention it whichever way you went and no one will care.
If you want to, then do, if you don't want to then don't. Simple as that.
Unless she invites you to a party or you're doing something for her birthday or something, then do.
If you want to, then do, if you don't want to then don't. Simple as that.
Unless she invites you to a party or you're doing something for her birthday or something, then do.