"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dk wtf to do

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Okay, so this girl i've been goign after for the past few weeks has fianllypaid off...Were both getting our licenses on Monday and she asked me to hang out with her afterwards. Now I've hung out with her AND her friends with me AND my friends but I've NEVER hung out with her alone and I'm getting worried its goign to be awkward....can someone give me some ideas on what to do with this girl.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Take her to a place that has something to be watched but you still talk to her. So there are no akward moments. Like a football game you still talk to her but you can also watch the game. If you take her to a movie you'll still have akward moments because you can't talk in movies. Just take her to somewhere where you have entertainment but you may still talk.
 
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toddC

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yea but were hanging durign school where in the world will there be a football game tow atch lol
 
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She has already given you the biggest sign of interest by requesting to hang out with you. You already have her hooked, wich is good, the next step is to create some rapport and to get her more comfortable around you. Since you both got your license tell her your a better driver, she will most likely object, have her prove it to you. The when she does you can bust her on every small thing (ie. going 1mph above the limit, tell her she drives like your grandma etc.)

When you hang with her just follow the phases of seduction.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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toddC

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yea i kinda figured taht when asking me to hang out that was a pretty big sign, however i don't really hang out with 1 girl at one time its usually my friends and her friends when we hang out so i'm just worried about what to talk about or what to do but yea thanks SP

*edit*also i was just thinking...do you think if i bought this girl a bday card it would be a bad thing or a good thing? I've known her for about 5 years but we really haven't talked in about 4 years up until about 3 weeks ago.
 
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Birthday cards are overrated. It one of those things that really doesn't matter either way, a day later no one will remember or mention it whichever way you went and no one will care.

If you want to, then do, if you don't want to then don't. Simple as that.

Unless she invites you to a party or you're doing something for her birthday or something, then do.
 
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