"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJs Unite! Once a week that is ;)

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Well, everytime I log in I'm spammed with sosuave people talking to me about their problems. Not that I mind helping out but I've got an idea.

I am organising a Don Juan chat, on the already set up Don Juan chat server on IRC once a week for 2 hours where I, and all other experienced members of the comunity will help people one by one. Afterwards, we can all engage in rampant conversation over certain techniques that need revising and whatnot.

Currently I'm thinking Tuesday 6-8 eastern or sunday same times.

What is best for you guys?

#DonJuan on polaris.starchat.net on IRC. Post if you need help setting up.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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how about 8-10.E.? sounds good for me
 
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Whatever is best. I'm currently on there with Jiza, HotIce and Wonder. I say just log on when you can and this organised chat will just be a sort of official attempt at getting quick help for problems.
 
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How can you change servers. Mine just randomly picks one.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are you using mIRC? Trillian...?
 
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Tuesdays would be bad for me. Then again you asked for expirenced DJ's :p How about Thursdays 8-9pm est?
 
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Weekends seem to be the major trend. I'll be on whenever I'm at my pc for some chatting (as should we all!) but we'll have THE SESSION saturdays and sundays. Times are yet to be determined.
 
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It seems a rather large number of people live in Europe! So, these sessions will henceforth be on the weekends. Satruday noon to 2 Eastern and same time sunday.

Whenever you're at your pc, please log on to the channel! You can get advice/help far quicker in chat than on forums!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm european.....maybe we should organise something.....
 
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DJ CLUB UNITE! *holds out fist* LOL....sorry:(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by jiza101
whens the time we are doing it??
im in australia melbourne whens it our time ;o
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google : world clock. or double click the clock on your start menu and change the time zone.
 
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Hey, a ton of you are on, get in the god damn chat!

Don't forget we are meeting sunday!
 
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sounds like a plan.
I'm in need of help getting a working source for IRC Chats. lol sorry, I ahvne't worked that **** in years.

What tiem we meeting Lik?
 
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I'm sorry guys, I couldn't make it. Tuesday from 3pm eastern until 9pm eastern I'll be in that chat room. I'll be on all weekend as well and hope to have this session sunday at noon eastern.
 
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