"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJs Unite! Once a week that is ;)

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Well, everytime I log in I'm spammed with sosuave people talking to me about their problems. Not that I mind helping out but I've got an idea.

I am organising a Don Juan chat, on the already set up Don Juan chat server on IRC once a week for 2 hours where I, and all other experienced members of the comunity will help people one by one. Afterwards, we can all engage in rampant conversation over certain techniques that need revising and whatnot.

Currently I'm thinking Tuesday 6-8 eastern or sunday same times.

What is best for you guys?

#DonJuan on polaris.starchat.net on IRC. Post if you need help setting up.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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how about 8-10.E.? sounds good for me
 
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Whatever is best. I'm currently on there with Jiza, HotIce and Wonder. I say just log on when you can and this organised chat will just be a sort of official attempt at getting quick help for problems.
 
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How can you change servers. Mine just randomly picks one.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are you using mIRC? Trillian...?
 
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Tuesdays would be bad for me. Then again you asked for expirenced DJ's :p How about Thursdays 8-9pm est?
 
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Weekends seem to be the major trend. I'll be on whenever I'm at my pc for some chatting (as should we all!) but we'll have THE SESSION saturdays and sundays. Times are yet to be determined.
 
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It seems a rather large number of people live in Europe! So, these sessions will henceforth be on the weekends. Satruday noon to 2 Eastern and same time sunday.

Whenever you're at your pc, please log on to the channel! You can get advice/help far quicker in chat than on forums!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm european.....maybe we should organise something.....
 
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DJ CLUB UNITE! *holds out fist* LOL....sorry:(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by jiza101
whens the time we are doing it??
im in australia melbourne whens it our time ;o
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google : world clock. or double click the clock on your start menu and change the time zone.
 
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Hey, a ton of you are on, get in the god damn chat!

Don't forget we are meeting sunday!
 
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sounds like a plan.
I'm in need of help getting a working source for IRC Chats. lol sorry, I ahvne't worked that **** in years.

What tiem we meeting Lik?
 
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I'm sorry guys, I couldn't make it. Tuesday from 3pm eastern until 9pm eastern I'll be in that chat room. I'll be on all weekend as well and hope to have this session sunday at noon eastern.
 
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