"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJs Unite! Once a week that is ;)

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Well, everytime I log in I'm spammed with sosuave people talking to me about their problems. Not that I mind helping out but I've got an idea.

I am organising a Don Juan chat, on the already set up Don Juan chat server on IRC once a week for 2 hours where I, and all other experienced members of the comunity will help people one by one. Afterwards, we can all engage in rampant conversation over certain techniques that need revising and whatnot.

Currently I'm thinking Tuesday 6-8 eastern or sunday same times.

What is best for you guys?

#DonJuan on polaris.starchat.net on IRC. Post if you need help setting up.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how about 8-10.E.? sounds good for me
 

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Whatever is best. I'm currently on there with Jiza, HotIce and Wonder. I say just log on when you can and this organised chat will just be a sort of official attempt at getting quick help for problems.
 

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How can you change servers. Mine just randomly picks one.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are you using mIRC? Trillian...?
 

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Tuesdays would be bad for me. Then again you asked for expirenced DJ's :p How about Thursdays 8-9pm est?
 

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Weekends seem to be the major trend. I'll be on whenever I'm at my pc for some chatting (as should we all!) but we'll have THE SESSION saturdays and sundays. Times are yet to be determined.
 

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It seems a rather large number of people live in Europe! So, these sessions will henceforth be on the weekends. Satruday noon to 2 Eastern and same time sunday.

Whenever you're at your pc, please log on to the channel! You can get advice/help far quicker in chat than on forums!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm european.....maybe we should organise something.....
 

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DJ CLUB UNITE! *holds out fist* LOL....sorry:(
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by jiza101
whens the time we are doing it??
im in australia melbourne whens it our time ;o
google : world clock. or double click the clock on your start menu and change the time zone.
 

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Hey, a ton of you are on, get in the god damn chat!

Don't forget we are meeting sunday!
 

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sounds like a plan.
I'm in need of help getting a working source for IRC Chats. lol sorry, I ahvne't worked that **** in years.

What tiem we meeting Lik?
 

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I'm sorry guys, I couldn't make it. Tuesday from 3pm eastern until 9pm eastern I'll be in that chat room. I'll be on all weekend as well and hope to have this session sunday at noon eastern.
 
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