Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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DJing is strong stuff...

Big Eee Zee

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this is a combined success/warning post for all the up and coming ladies men out there-

I used to be a complete tool until I found this site and realized how counter-productive my AFC ideas were. Well, what I didn't realize was how POWERFUL this stuff was. There was a girl I was moderately attracted to and wanted to get to know so I started pulling all the stops. Acting aloof, being C&F and charming, talking about other girls, treating her like she was just another girl etc. I didn't see any results so I ramped it up and really pushed my game to the limits. I didn't think it was working and got discouraged. But what I didn't realize was that it was working, a lot. My skills made me able to create interest, but my lack of experience made me unable to recognize it (probably like many of you). Sorta like handing someone a gun and not teaching them to shoot.

I found out yesterday that this girl is so into me that she is afraid to make a move, I seem too good for her. I intend to fix that this weekend. ;)

So all of you complainers who say that DJing doesn't work, I say "Bah!" It does work, damn good too. Just be careful what you do with your new ablilites, you could hurt people if you're not careful.






With great power comes great responsibility.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
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With great power comes great responsibility.
EXCELSIOR!!!!

Hey, someone had to say it if you were going to quote comic books!!! :p
 

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Umm...never read it. That saying is so widespread that it has become common knowledge, it is no longer considered a quote.
 

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Re: Re: DJing is strong stuff...

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
EXCELSIOR!!!!

Hey, someone had to say it if you were going to quote comic books!!! :p

I've heard that quote as well, never heard of Excelsior. Sounds like Alkaseltzer.
 

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Re: Re: Re: DJing is strong stuff...

Originally posted by AdrenalynJunkee
I've heard that quote as well, never heard of Excelsior. Sounds like Alkaseltzer.
Alright, that was funny. But "Excelsior" is the catch phrase of the father of Marvel Comics (Stan Lee) the creator of Spider Man and the aforementioned quote.

D@mn, am I really THAT old to be the only one that knows this???!!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
Umm...never read it. That saying is so widespread that it has become common knowledge, it is no longer considered a quote.
You must be kidding!!!
 

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hey francisco (something or other) im 14 and i knew it too!
 

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Originally posted by chill
hey francisco (something or other) im 14 and i knew it too!
Bless you chill, you've kept me from looking like a senile old man (although the medication helps too). :D
 
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