"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJing is strong stuff...

Big Eee Zee

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this is a combined success/warning post for all the up and coming ladies men out there-

I used to be a complete tool until I found this site and realized how counter-productive my AFC ideas were. Well, what I didn't realize was how POWERFUL this stuff was. There was a girl I was moderately attracted to and wanted to get to know so I started pulling all the stops. Acting aloof, being C&F and charming, talking about other girls, treating her like she was just another girl etc. I didn't see any results so I ramped it up and really pushed my game to the limits. I didn't think it was working and got discouraged. But what I didn't realize was that it was working, a lot. My skills made me able to create interest, but my lack of experience made me unable to recognize it (probably like many of you). Sorta like handing someone a gun and not teaching them to shoot.

I found out yesterday that this girl is so into me that she is afraid to make a move, I seem too good for her. I intend to fix that this weekend. ;)

So all of you complainers who say that DJing doesn't work, I say "Bah!" It does work, damn good too. Just be careful what you do with your new ablilites, you could hurt people if you're not careful.






With great power comes great responsibility.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
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With great power comes great responsibility.
EXCELSIOR!!!!

Hey, someone had to say it if you were going to quote comic books!!! :p
 

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Umm...never read it. That saying is so widespread that it has become common knowledge, it is no longer considered a quote.
 

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Re: Re: DJing is strong stuff...

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
EXCELSIOR!!!!

Hey, someone had to say it if you were going to quote comic books!!! :p

I've heard that quote as well, never heard of Excelsior. Sounds like Alkaseltzer.
 

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Re: Re: Re: DJing is strong stuff...

Originally posted by AdrenalynJunkee
I've heard that quote as well, never heard of Excelsior. Sounds like Alkaseltzer.
Alright, that was funny. But "Excelsior" is the catch phrase of the father of Marvel Comics (Stan Lee) the creator of Spider Man and the aforementioned quote.

D@mn, am I really THAT old to be the only one that knows this???!!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
Umm...never read it. That saying is so widespread that it has become common knowledge, it is no longer considered a quote.
You must be kidding!!!
 

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hey francisco (something or other) im 14 and i knew it too!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by chill
hey francisco (something or other) im 14 and i knew it too!
Bless you chill, you've kept me from looking like a senile old man (although the medication helps too). :D
 
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