"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJBC A-Team -Week 2

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Congratulations A-Team for Completing Week 1!

These are the DJ's who have completed their excercises and will be moving on to week 2.

Week 2 *Standby* 5/4/08-5/11/08

Cry For Love
Dole
EnriTT
Evolution
hyphy101
GaryUranga
John_anthony
Teh_Wolf
Tyzef


The BC will be using the following as guidelines:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf
or word Version:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.doc

1-2-3

1) Responsibilities
- Do the reading for each week
- Complete the exercises for each week
- Write a Report at the end of the week

2) In addition, you may:

- Listen to the music (recommended to get into the mood )
- Report any time during the week in this thread
- Ask questions in this thread
- Give tips in this thread
If you learn anything new that you think is valuable to others, you are encouraged to post in this thread.

3) Week 2 - Exercises:

> Ten 2-10 minute conversations with strangers.

Now Goodluck DJ's, go get em!
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok, I went to my old high school, talked to random ppl, about how their school yr is doing so far.

5/10 Convo's.

*update* Went to Inn and Out talked to a guy about extreme frisby.
Went to target talked to a women about sunprotection.
 
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hey! I finished too. some of us just had finals to study for. Anyways i finished week one. Week two will be really easy but really lame. I have to go to something and i gaurantee it'll be like all dudes. But at least they'll be all strangers. but still, lame.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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5/10, went to a tailgate party, it was pretty small and i knew alot of people otherwise it woulda been more. but probably going to a party tommorrow then im going to a drive in movie so i should be finished tommorrow :p
 
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10/10+

Went to my old High School, talked to alot of ppl, even got a yr book signing for someone I didn't even k now. I said "Alright, i'll right something inspirational."

On the way out of the library, saw a group of 5 ppl chatted em up and even got their facebook, awesome
 
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Progress Report

Cry For Love -Need Report-
Dole -Need Report-
EnriTT 4/10
Evolution -Completed-
hyphy101 -Need Report-
GaryUranga 6/10
John_anthony -Need Report-
Teh_Wolf 5/10
Tyzef 7/10
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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finished today, for next week im going to start makign conversations even with the people I know, usually Im not makign too much convo or askign questions I recently noticed this, its a skill I could practise even with my mom the fact of making conversation which is what I noticed Im failing at

10/10
 
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ok so i guess im not on the roster because i might have posted in the wrong places for results lol.

but week 1 i got all 50 greetings in, plus more the last week or two, and then last week i got all 10 convos in (5 with a group at SAT's, 2 with friends of a friend, and 3 at a grad party). But now i have to stop doing DJBC because I have a girlfriend. GG. I might be posting in the DJ discussion forum for some pointers or something but i think i can handle it from here on out.

Good luck guys.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Week 3:
So far: 0 convos with girls :(
I had 2 opportunities in the street to talk with HBs but I didn't take it, still don't have the balls to do it. Today,I wish I could
 
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week 3 should be easier :p think about it like this, last week you just had to talk to 10 random people, now you get to talk to 10 attractive girls :p you should enjoy it more eh haha
 
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Week 2

Sorry for the late post, I have been very busy.

Task done 10/10 :D
 
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Yeah i got waaaayyy more then the required amount of convos. I had to spend a week practically at a training seminar for my sport. Unfortunately no HBs. but i got the convos done so what ever.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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