"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJBC A-Team -Week 2

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Congratulations A-Team for Completing Week 1!

These are the DJ's who have completed their excercises and will be moving on to week 2.

Week 2 *Standby* 5/4/08-5/11/08

Cry For Love
Dole
EnriTT
Evolution
hyphy101
GaryUranga
John_anthony
Teh_Wolf
Tyzef


The BC will be using the following as guidelines:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf
or word Version:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.doc

1-2-3

1) Responsibilities
- Do the reading for each week
- Complete the exercises for each week
- Write a Report at the end of the week

2) In addition, you may:

- Listen to the music (recommended to get into the mood )
- Report any time during the week in this thread
- Ask questions in this thread
- Give tips in this thread
If you learn anything new that you think is valuable to others, you are encouraged to post in this thread.

3) Week 2 - Exercises:

> Ten 2-10 minute conversations with strangers.

Now Goodluck DJ's, go get em!
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok, I went to my old high school, talked to random ppl, about how their school yr is doing so far.

5/10 Convo's.

*update* Went to Inn and Out talked to a guy about extreme frisby.
Went to target talked to a women about sunprotection.
 
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hey! I finished too. some of us just had finals to study for. Anyways i finished week one. Week two will be really easy but really lame. I have to go to something and i gaurantee it'll be like all dudes. But at least they'll be all strangers. but still, lame.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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5/10, went to a tailgate party, it was pretty small and i knew alot of people otherwise it woulda been more. but probably going to a party tommorrow then im going to a drive in movie so i should be finished tommorrow :p
 
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10/10+

Went to my old High School, talked to alot of ppl, even got a yr book signing for someone I didn't even k now. I said "Alright, i'll right something inspirational."

On the way out of the library, saw a group of 5 ppl chatted em up and even got their facebook, awesome
 
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Progress Report

Cry For Love -Need Report-
Dole -Need Report-
EnriTT 4/10
Evolution -Completed-
hyphy101 -Need Report-
GaryUranga 6/10
John_anthony -Need Report-
Teh_Wolf 5/10
Tyzef 7/10
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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finished today, for next week im going to start makign conversations even with the people I know, usually Im not makign too much convo or askign questions I recently noticed this, its a skill I could practise even with my mom the fact of making conversation which is what I noticed Im failing at

10/10
 
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ok so i guess im not on the roster because i might have posted in the wrong places for results lol.

but week 1 i got all 50 greetings in, plus more the last week or two, and then last week i got all 10 convos in (5 with a group at SAT's, 2 with friends of a friend, and 3 at a grad party). But now i have to stop doing DJBC because I have a girlfriend. GG. I might be posting in the DJ discussion forum for some pointers or something but i think i can handle it from here on out.

Good luck guys.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Week 3:
So far: 0 convos with girls :(
I had 2 opportunities in the street to talk with HBs but I didn't take it, still don't have the balls to do it. Today,I wish I could
 
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week 3 should be easier :p think about it like this, last week you just had to talk to 10 random people, now you get to talk to 10 attractive girls :p you should enjoy it more eh haha
 
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Week 2

Sorry for the late post, I have been very busy.

Task done 10/10 :D
 
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Yeah i got waaaayyy more then the required amount of convos. I had to spend a week practically at a training seminar for my sport. Unfortunately no HBs. but i got the convos done so what ever.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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