"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJBC- A-TEAM (Late Starters)

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ARE YOU READY FOR THE BEST 8 WEEKS OF THE MOST HARDCORE SELF-DEVELOPMENT PROGRAM OF YOUR LIFE?

Well get ready, cause your about to embark on a WILD RIDE!



DJ BOOTCAMP 8-WEEK COURSE


Sign-ups: *ACTIVE*

*Currently accepting* PM ME: Evolution

Week 1- Starts 5/26/08 Ends 6/2/08

Points will be awarded based on Performance. This is a competitive event, theres nothing wrong in having a little competition =).

^Ranking^

?. n00bPimp
?. Dole
?. Evolution
?. redspicyflag
?. Teh_Wolf
?. Cry For Love
?. GaryUranga
?. Rise.
?. TBA
?. TBA

The BC will be using the following as guidelines:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf
or word Version:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.doc

1-2-3

1) Responsibilities
- Do the reading for each week
- Complete the exercises for each week
- Write a Report at the end of the week

2) In addition, you may:

- Listen to the music (recommended to get into the mood )
- Report any time during the week in this thread
- Ask questions in this thread
- Give tips in this thread
If you learn anything new that you think is valuable to others, you are encouraged to post in this thread.

3) Week 1 - Exercises:

> 2 Hours of establishing eye contact with strangers
> Saying "Hi" to 50 strangers (you may also use any other greeting )

Goodluck DJ's, go get em!
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What makes you so special? Where's your credentials? Do you even know anything about what you want to teach?
 
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*shakes head* He's not gonna be teaching anything. He's saying that he missed the sign-up for the DJBC that started yesterday, and he's gonna do one as well, slightly behind the main one. He wants people to join up so that he doesn't have to do it alone.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sign ups still going on, positions are still up for grabs! =)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Welcome redspicyflag! welcome, to all participating members! Be sure to grab a copy of the DJ Bible, we will be using it as the format for the BOOT CAMP. Good luck!
 
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I'm fvcking in, if there any room left. After the last night out, I realized there no other way, social anxiety has to fvcking go! Otherwise I'll waste another 10 years of my life. I promise I'll try very hard to meet the objectives, even though when I see a girl, a trickle of sh!t slithers down my inner thighs.

When do we start?
 
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I pm'ed and now im signing in here.

Im 17 years old and have known about this stuff for about a year but havent necesarily been applying everything i learned. I was gonna start reading the original stuff i had and just going back to the very basics and i think this will help alot
 
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I do agree that you did a good job copying my stuff, however I am not going to accept this group as competetive to the "real" groups. You are a) starting late and b) having a different number of people, so you can't compare that. Why don't you just make a competition between the people in this group?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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yeah man that sounds good. You dont mind us using your good idea (unless that was sarcasm), I rate we see how many people sign up and just do a seperate one. Maybe we can set up a competition for the winning teams of each boot camp to take on against each other :p like BC finals
 
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Seats are filling up, like hotcakes. First come first serve. Cmon down!
 
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Al Moh, unless I'm seruously wrong DJBC is hardly your idea. Personally I don't consider this as some sort of AFC olympics and therefore am not interested in any competition with your "real" groups. It's just that it is easier to to this when you're not alone.

Anyway, good luck to everybody doing the same thing, and I hope we'll all get through it.
 
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Nope DJBC is definitely not my idea, I was talking about the first post in this thread, some words are turned arround a little but other than that it's what I wrote ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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