"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJBC- A-TEAM (Late Starters)

Evolution

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ARE YOU READY FOR THE BEST 8 WEEKS OF THE MOST HARDCORE SELF-DEVELOPMENT PROGRAM OF YOUR LIFE?

Well get ready, cause your about to embark on a WILD RIDE!



DJ BOOTCAMP 8-WEEK COURSE


Sign-ups: *ACTIVE*

*Currently accepting* PM ME: Evolution

Week 1- Starts 5/26/08 Ends 6/2/08

Points will be awarded based on Performance. This is a competitive event, theres nothing wrong in having a little competition =).

^Ranking^

?. n00bPimp
?. Dole
?. Evolution
?. redspicyflag
?. Teh_Wolf
?. Cry For Love
?. GaryUranga
?. Rise.
?. TBA
?. TBA

The BC will be using the following as guidelines:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf
or word Version:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.doc

1-2-3

1) Responsibilities
- Do the reading for each week
- Complete the exercises for each week
- Write a Report at the end of the week

2) In addition, you may:

- Listen to the music (recommended to get into the mood )
- Report any time during the week in this thread
- Ask questions in this thread
- Give tips in this thread
If you learn anything new that you think is valuable to others, you are encouraged to post in this thread.

3) Week 1 - Exercises:

> 2 Hours of establishing eye contact with strangers
> Saying "Hi" to 50 strangers (you may also use any other greeting )

Goodluck DJ's, go get em!
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Scars

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What makes you so special? Where's your credentials? Do you even know anything about what you want to teach?
 

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*shakes head* He's not gonna be teaching anything. He's saying that he missed the sign-up for the DJBC that started yesterday, and he's gonna do one as well, slightly behind the main one. He wants people to join up so that he doesn't have to do it alone.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Evolution

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Sign ups still going on, positions are still up for grabs! =)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Evolution

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Welcome redspicyflag! welcome, to all participating members! Be sure to grab a copy of the DJ Bible, we will be using it as the format for the BOOT CAMP. Good luck!
 

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I'm fvcking in, if there any room left. After the last night out, I realized there no other way, social anxiety has to fvcking go! Otherwise I'll waste another 10 years of my life. I promise I'll try very hard to meet the objectives, even though when I see a girl, a trickle of sh!t slithers down my inner thighs.

When do we start?
 

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I pm'ed and now im signing in here.

Im 17 years old and have known about this stuff for about a year but havent necesarily been applying everything i learned. I was gonna start reading the original stuff i had and just going back to the very basics and i think this will help alot
 

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I do agree that you did a good job copying my stuff, however I am not going to accept this group as competetive to the "real" groups. You are a) starting late and b) having a different number of people, so you can't compare that. Why don't you just make a competition between the people in this group?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Teh_Wolf

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yeah man that sounds good. You dont mind us using your good idea (unless that was sarcasm), I rate we see how many people sign up and just do a seperate one. Maybe we can set up a competition for the winning teams of each boot camp to take on against each other :p like BC finals
 

Evolution

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Seats are filling up, like hotcakes. First come first serve. Cmon down!
 

godofanxiety

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Al Moh, unless I'm seruously wrong DJBC is hardly your idea. Personally I don't consider this as some sort of AFC olympics and therefore am not interested in any competition with your "real" groups. It's just that it is easier to to this when you're not alone.

Anyway, good luck to everybody doing the same thing, and I hope we'll all get through it.
 

Al Moh.

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Nope DJBC is definitely not my idea, I was talking about the first post in this thread, some words are turned arround a little but other than that it's what I wrote ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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