"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJBC- A-TEAM (Late Starters)

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ARE YOU READY FOR THE BEST 8 WEEKS OF THE MOST HARDCORE SELF-DEVELOPMENT PROGRAM OF YOUR LIFE?

Well get ready, cause your about to embark on a WILD RIDE!



DJ BOOTCAMP 8-WEEK COURSE


Sign-ups: *ACTIVE*

*Currently accepting* PM ME: Evolution

Week 1- Starts 5/26/08 Ends 6/2/08

Points will be awarded based on Performance. This is a competitive event, theres nothing wrong in having a little competition =).

^Ranking^

?. n00bPimp
?. Dole
?. Evolution
?. redspicyflag
?. Teh_Wolf
?. Cry For Love
?. GaryUranga
?. Rise.
?. TBA
?. TBA

The BC will be using the following as guidelines:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf
or word Version:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.doc

1-2-3

1) Responsibilities
- Do the reading for each week
- Complete the exercises for each week
- Write a Report at the end of the week

2) In addition, you may:

- Listen to the music (recommended to get into the mood )
- Report any time during the week in this thread
- Ask questions in this thread
- Give tips in this thread
If you learn anything new that you think is valuable to others, you are encouraged to post in this thread.

3) Week 1 - Exercises:

> 2 Hours of establishing eye contact with strangers
> Saying "Hi" to 50 strangers (you may also use any other greeting )

Goodluck DJ's, go get em!
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What makes you so special? Where's your credentials? Do you even know anything about what you want to teach?
 
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*shakes head* He's not gonna be teaching anything. He's saying that he missed the sign-up for the DJBC that started yesterday, and he's gonna do one as well, slightly behind the main one. He wants people to join up so that he doesn't have to do it alone.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sign ups still going on, positions are still up for grabs! =)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Welcome redspicyflag! welcome, to all participating members! Be sure to grab a copy of the DJ Bible, we will be using it as the format for the BOOT CAMP. Good luck!
 
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I'm fvcking in, if there any room left. After the last night out, I realized there no other way, social anxiety has to fvcking go! Otherwise I'll waste another 10 years of my life. I promise I'll try very hard to meet the objectives, even though when I see a girl, a trickle of sh!t slithers down my inner thighs.

When do we start?
 
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I pm'ed and now im signing in here.

Im 17 years old and have known about this stuff for about a year but havent necesarily been applying everything i learned. I was gonna start reading the original stuff i had and just going back to the very basics and i think this will help alot
 
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I do agree that you did a good job copying my stuff, however I am not going to accept this group as competetive to the "real" groups. You are a) starting late and b) having a different number of people, so you can't compare that. Why don't you just make a competition between the people in this group?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah man that sounds good. You dont mind us using your good idea (unless that was sarcasm), I rate we see how many people sign up and just do a seperate one. Maybe we can set up a competition for the winning teams of each boot camp to take on against each other :p like BC finals
 
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Seats are filling up, like hotcakes. First come first serve. Cmon down!
 
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Al Moh, unless I'm seruously wrong DJBC is hardly your idea. Personally I don't consider this as some sort of AFC olympics and therefore am not interested in any competition with your "real" groups. It's just that it is easier to to this when you're not alone.

Anyway, good luck to everybody doing the same thing, and I hope we'll all get through it.
 
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Nope DJBC is definitely not my idea, I was talking about the first post in this thread, some words are turned arround a little but other than that it's what I wrote ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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