"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJBC- A-TEAM (Late Starters)

Evolution

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ARE YOU READY FOR THE BEST 8 WEEKS OF THE MOST HARDCORE SELF-DEVELOPMENT PROGRAM OF YOUR LIFE?

Well get ready, cause your about to embark on a WILD RIDE!



DJ BOOTCAMP 8-WEEK COURSE


Sign-ups: *ACTIVE*

*Currently accepting* PM ME: Evolution

Week 1- Starts 5/26/08 Ends 6/2/08

Points will be awarded based on Performance. This is a competitive event, theres nothing wrong in having a little competition =).

^Ranking^

?. n00bPimp
?. Dole
?. Evolution
?. redspicyflag
?. Teh_Wolf
?. Cry For Love
?. GaryUranga
?. Rise.
?. TBA
?. TBA

The BC will be using the following as guidelines:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf
or word Version:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.doc

1-2-3

1) Responsibilities
- Do the reading for each week
- Complete the exercises for each week
- Write a Report at the end of the week

2) In addition, you may:

- Listen to the music (recommended to get into the mood )
- Report any time during the week in this thread
- Ask questions in this thread
- Give tips in this thread
If you learn anything new that you think is valuable to others, you are encouraged to post in this thread.

3) Week 1 - Exercises:

> 2 Hours of establishing eye contact with strangers
> Saying "Hi" to 50 strangers (you may also use any other greeting )

Goodluck DJ's, go get em!
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What makes you so special? Where's your credentials? Do you even know anything about what you want to teach?
 

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*shakes head* He's not gonna be teaching anything. He's saying that he missed the sign-up for the DJBC that started yesterday, and he's gonna do one as well, slightly behind the main one. He wants people to join up so that he doesn't have to do it alone.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Evolution

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Sign ups still going on, positions are still up for grabs! =)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Evolution

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Welcome redspicyflag! welcome, to all participating members! Be sure to grab a copy of the DJ Bible, we will be using it as the format for the BOOT CAMP. Good luck!
 

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I'm fvcking in, if there any room left. After the last night out, I realized there no other way, social anxiety has to fvcking go! Otherwise I'll waste another 10 years of my life. I promise I'll try very hard to meet the objectives, even though when I see a girl, a trickle of sh!t slithers down my inner thighs.

When do we start?
 

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I pm'ed and now im signing in here.

Im 17 years old and have known about this stuff for about a year but havent necesarily been applying everything i learned. I was gonna start reading the original stuff i had and just going back to the very basics and i think this will help alot
 

Al Moh.

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I do agree that you did a good job copying my stuff, however I am not going to accept this group as competetive to the "real" groups. You are a) starting late and b) having a different number of people, so you can't compare that. Why don't you just make a competition between the people in this group?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yeah man that sounds good. You dont mind us using your good idea (unless that was sarcasm), I rate we see how many people sign up and just do a seperate one. Maybe we can set up a competition for the winning teams of each boot camp to take on against each other :p like BC finals
 

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Seats are filling up, like hotcakes. First come first serve. Cmon down!
 

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Al Moh, unless I'm seruously wrong DJBC is hardly your idea. Personally I don't consider this as some sort of AFC olympics and therefore am not interested in any competition with your "real" groups. It's just that it is easier to to this when you're not alone.

Anyway, good luck to everybody doing the same thing, and I hope we'll all get through it.
 

Al Moh.

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Nope DJBC is definitely not my idea, I was talking about the first post in this thread, some words are turned arround a little but other than that it's what I wrote ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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