"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ/Wingman database (djdb) is up!

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BrownDJ

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Come on guys, sign up!!! I know there are many people who live in teh same city.

AIM: yaz320
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CaliMike

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Bump - Sign up folks. Its free. Its easy. There will be no spam. Get to know local DJs. Use a legit e-mail address, because you have to verify your account to use it.

Mods? How about keeping this at the top for a while?
 
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rbd

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I signed up as rbd, but never got the confirmation email with my password. The lost password script is not present as well. Let me know if there's anything I can do, otherwise I'll just make a new username.

Robby
 
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BS

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hey, i signed up but i forgot my password and the password retrival isn't working. Anyway you can email it to me?
 
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MR_PERFECT

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CaliMike, are you the Mike from Diamond Bar? I live in Pasadena.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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CaliMike

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MR_PERFECT - Yep... sure am... get my info from the DJDB and lets get together some time...

BS (and everyone else):

The lost password retrieval system is up and running as of 12:00am PST.

The change password module is up and running as of 12:00am PST.
 
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SIWrx

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You definately need a BACK button. If i search, then hit back, the page expires. Please just put a simple back button somewhere. Idd say bottom right.

Maybe like a

<<Back | | Forward>>

thing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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good job man...looks good. Yeah, the only prob is the back button thing that someone previously mentioned.

There should be a link to this site from the main forum page so we don't have to bump this every now and then.

[This message has been edited by Exodus (edited 10-28-2002).]
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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