"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BrownDJ

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Come on guys, sign up!!! I know there are many people who live in teh same city.

AIM: yaz320
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CaliMike

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Bump - Sign up folks. Its free. Its easy. There will be no spam. Get to know local DJs. Use a legit e-mail address, because you have to verify your account to use it.

Mods? How about keeping this at the top for a while?
 
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I signed up as rbd, but never got the confirmation email with my password. The lost password script is not present as well. Let me know if there's anything I can do, otherwise I'll just make a new username.

Robby
 
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BS

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hey, i signed up but i forgot my password and the password retrival isn't working. Anyway you can email it to me?
 
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MR_PERFECT

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CaliMike, are you the Mike from Diamond Bar? I live in Pasadena.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MR_PERFECT - Yep... sure am... get my info from the DJDB and lets get together some time...

BS (and everyone else):

The lost password retrieval system is up and running as of 12:00am PST.

The change password module is up and running as of 12:00am PST.
 
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SIWrx

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You definately need a BACK button. If i search, then hit back, the page expires. Please just put a simple back button somewhere. Idd say bottom right.

Maybe like a

<<Back | | Forward>>

thing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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good job man...looks good. Yeah, the only prob is the back button thing that someone previously mentioned.

There should be a link to this site from the main forum page so we don't have to bump this every now and then.

[This message has been edited by Exodus (edited 10-28-2002).]
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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