"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJ/Wingman database (djdb) is up!

BrownDJ

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Come on guys, sign up!!! I know there are many people who live in teh same city.

AIM: yaz320
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CaliMike

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Bump - Sign up folks. Its free. Its easy. There will be no spam. Get to know local DJs. Use a legit e-mail address, because you have to verify your account to use it.

Mods? How about keeping this at the top for a while?
 

rbd

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I signed up as rbd, but never got the confirmation email with my password. The lost password script is not present as well. Let me know if there's anything I can do, otherwise I'll just make a new username.

Robby
 

BS

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hey, i signed up but i forgot my password and the password retrival isn't working. Anyway you can email it to me?
 

MR_PERFECT

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CaliMike, are you the Mike from Diamond Bar? I live in Pasadena.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CaliMike

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MR_PERFECT - Yep... sure am... get my info from the DJDB and lets get together some time...

BS (and everyone else):

The lost password retrieval system is up and running as of 12:00am PST.

The change password module is up and running as of 12:00am PST.
 

SIWrx

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You definately need a BACK button. If i search, then hit back, the page expires. Please just put a simple back button somewhere. Idd say bottom right.

Maybe like a

<<Back | | Forward>>

thing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Exodus

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good job man...looks good. Yeah, the only prob is the back button thing that someone previously mentioned.

There should be a link to this site from the main forum page so we don't have to bump this every now and then.

[This message has been edited by Exodus (edited 10-28-2002).]
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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