"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJ/Wingman database (djdb) is up!

vectorz

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the rating system doesn't seem to work properly. If I choose CA and i click on the "1" radio button and "greater than" , it *should* list everyone in CA. However, it only lists people that rate a 1. And if I click radio button #2, greater than, it'll only list the people rating 2. So on so forth. Otherwise, it's a GREAT system! Which Open Source project did you use as the framework for this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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XANEUS

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is there any way to change your listed location?
 

CaliMike

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Originally posted by vectorz
the rating system doesn't seem to work properly. If I choose CA and i click on the "1" radio button and "greater than" , it *should* list everyone in CA. However, it only lists people that rate a 1. And if I click radio button #2, greater than, it'll only list the people rating 2. So on so forth. Otherwise, it's a GREAT system! Which Open Source project did you use as the framework for this?

No opensource framework used. I threw the DJDB together in a couple hours in between real projects. I'll take care of that rating/search problem ASAP


UPDATE: As of 4:50pm PST, the search problem is fixed.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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vectorz

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Originally posted by CaliMike
No opensource framework used. I threw the DJDB together in a couple hours in between real projects. I'll take care of that rating/search problem ASAP


UPDATE: As of 4:50pm PST, the search problem is fixed.
You are DA MAN. We definitely need to get together, bro!
 

Borgia

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People from London - sign up !!!

BUMB BUMB BUMB

This is a database of DJ's which u can search to meet people in your area - very useful but not very full so people check it out - its free and easy - use a valid email address

!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

Eternal

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Moved to Wingman Forum.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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qweretyuiopas

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Originally posted by CaliMike
Sorry for the downtime folks...

The DJDB is not on pimp.cc anymore.

It has moved here: SoSuave Don Juan Database

All of the data has been ported over, so if you had on account on the pimp.cc DJDB, it's already up and running at the new location.

Enjoy.
Damn I think thats the longest time in between 2 posts it was almost 2 years wow :eek:
 

Damian

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Some kind of error happens when i try to sign up. I filled in all the boxes, what's the deal?

-Damian
 
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