"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ/Wingman database (djdb) is up!

vectorz

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the rating system doesn't seem to work properly. If I choose CA and i click on the "1" radio button and "greater than" , it *should* list everyone in CA. However, it only lists people that rate a 1. And if I click radio button #2, greater than, it'll only list the people rating 2. So on so forth. Otherwise, it's a GREAT system! Which Open Source project did you use as the framework for this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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XANEUS

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is there any way to change your listed location?
 

CaliMike

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Originally posted by vectorz
the rating system doesn't seem to work properly. If I choose CA and i click on the "1" radio button and "greater than" , it *should* list everyone in CA. However, it only lists people that rate a 1. And if I click radio button #2, greater than, it'll only list the people rating 2. So on so forth. Otherwise, it's a GREAT system! Which Open Source project did you use as the framework for this?

No opensource framework used. I threw the DJDB together in a couple hours in between real projects. I'll take care of that rating/search problem ASAP


UPDATE: As of 4:50pm PST, the search problem is fixed.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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vectorz

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Originally posted by CaliMike
No opensource framework used. I threw the DJDB together in a couple hours in between real projects. I'll take care of that rating/search problem ASAP


UPDATE: As of 4:50pm PST, the search problem is fixed.
You are DA MAN. We definitely need to get together, bro!
 

Borgia

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People from London - sign up !!!

BUMB BUMB BUMB

This is a database of DJ's which u can search to meet people in your area - very useful but not very full so people check it out - its free and easy - use a valid email address

!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

Eternal

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Moved to Wingman Forum.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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qweretyuiopas

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Originally posted by CaliMike
Sorry for the downtime folks...

The DJDB is not on pimp.cc anymore.

It has moved here: SoSuave Don Juan Database

All of the data has been ported over, so if you had on account on the pimp.cc DJDB, it's already up and running at the new location.

Enjoy.
Damn I think thats the longest time in between 2 posts it was almost 2 years wow :eek:
 

Damian

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Some kind of error happens when i try to sign up. I filled in all the boxes, what's the deal?

-Damian
 
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