"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ/Wingman database (djdb) is up!

vectorz

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the rating system doesn't seem to work properly. If I choose CA and i click on the "1" radio button and "greater than" , it *should* list everyone in CA. However, it only lists people that rate a 1. And if I click radio button #2, greater than, it'll only list the people rating 2. So on so forth. Otherwise, it's a GREAT system! Which Open Source project did you use as the framework for this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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XANEUS

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is there any way to change your listed location?
 

CaliMike

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Originally posted by vectorz
the rating system doesn't seem to work properly. If I choose CA and i click on the "1" radio button and "greater than" , it *should* list everyone in CA. However, it only lists people that rate a 1. And if I click radio button #2, greater than, it'll only list the people rating 2. So on so forth. Otherwise, it's a GREAT system! Which Open Source project did you use as the framework for this?

No opensource framework used. I threw the DJDB together in a couple hours in between real projects. I'll take care of that rating/search problem ASAP


UPDATE: As of 4:50pm PST, the search problem is fixed.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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vectorz

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Originally posted by CaliMike
No opensource framework used. I threw the DJDB together in a couple hours in between real projects. I'll take care of that rating/search problem ASAP


UPDATE: As of 4:50pm PST, the search problem is fixed.
You are DA MAN. We definitely need to get together, bro!
 

Borgia

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People from London - sign up !!!

BUMB BUMB BUMB

This is a database of DJ's which u can search to meet people in your area - very useful but not very full so people check it out - its free and easy - use a valid email address

!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

Eternal

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Moved to Wingman Forum.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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qweretyuiopas

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Originally posted by CaliMike
Sorry for the downtime folks...

The DJDB is not on pimp.cc anymore.

It has moved here: SoSuave Don Juan Database

All of the data has been ported over, so if you had on account on the pimp.cc DJDB, it's already up and running at the new location.

Enjoy.
Damn I think thats the longest time in between 2 posts it was almost 2 years wow :eek:
 

Damian

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Some kind of error happens when i try to sign up. I filled in all the boxes, what's the deal?

-Damian
 
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