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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Talking everyday on phone? (If so) I hope it's not you who's initiating the callsSadao said:So nothing has been going on lately, pretty damn focused on HB9model right now. I may be making a mistake talking to her daily and seeing her a couple times a week so I may lay off for a week or so to get her IL back up. Was supposed to head down and have dinner with her and a few of her friends on tuesday night but I was working out and 1. I didn't want to cut my workout short, and 2. can't be too available.
varies through phone, text, myspace, facebook, aim. I actually can't think of a single time i've initiated conversation with her, so there's a plus. I've ignored a text from her just a few minutes ago saying "don't say hi to me or anything online!" after I had signed on aol and off without talking to her.Zerix said:Talking everyday on phone? (If so) I hope it's not you who's initiating the calls![]()
While it's good to remain aloof, if you're never initiating convos she is gonna stop doing her part. You should throw her a bone every now and then to keep her goin...Sadao said:varies through phone, text, myspace, facebook, aim. I actually can't think of a single time i've initiated conversation with her, so there's a plus. I've ignored a text from her just a few minutes ago saying "don't say hi to me or anything online!" after I had signed on aol and off without talking to her.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
good point.green69 said:While it's good to remain aloof, if you're never initiating convos she is gonna stop doing her part. You should throw her a bone every now and then to keep her goin...
That's actually quiet funny... seeing as how you can score more than any of those chumpsSadao said:So remember when i asked HB8.5skinny for her number and she rejected saying she had given it out 3 times that day or some stupid ****. Well, i keep getting fools coming up to me saying "so i hear hb8.5skinny totally shot you down", like probably 5 times now. This ***** is starting to piss me off because A. she has high IL and was just displaying a sense of value to me, i could have gotten it by now but i just haven't cared to. And B. **** these losers that come up to me, at least i had the balls to ask her. But in my opinion she's BRAGGING about shooting me down since it's rare and anyone else would have given it up.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
not talking about me being bored, i can't pull the whole bringing girls to parties thing since there won't be many.Zerix said:Shouldnt summer be all about fun and vacationing? Why is everyone moving away for the summer?
Get more hours at work though then if you won't have much to do.
thanks man, i'll try to get the fr's closer to what they used to be, involving conversations and whatnot, just recently only been trying to progress with hb9modelDonJoseCantosie said:I'm mad jealous of ur progress man! Very good work, half this **** i didn't even think was really that do-able. I couldn't do it...dont' got the balls for that kind of risk in the workplace. Also for these FRs, ur writing is pretty good...even if it contains some strong language..i like that way funny as hell. This is good inspiration for me to continue in the game.
I thought sosuave was wack for a while, but this FR alone is worth going to this site.
Forgot to mention, i like how you're sexual with these girls, thats a big problem with many guys out in the feild, i have this problem too, that they don't convey that they're a sexual being but...u, like fallen, got that **** covered. Keep it pimpin and want to hear more of HBModel and HBBakery.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
NICE!!Sadao said:Was at work last night and was horny as **** for some reason. I recalled me and my friend talking a couple weeks ago about how a porn site would be amazing cash flow and extremely easy to do, just need to find a girl willing to have her own site. So i stroll on over to the bakery..
Me: Yo, 100% honesty, would you ever do porn?
HB7bakery: Yes *smiles*
Me: Haha, **** yea.
HB7bakery: Yea I was going to record myself once but I forgot.
Me: What do you think of having your own site.
HB7bakery: Hmmm, not sure, would have to deal with the fact of so many people watching me.
Me: Yea but think about it, say you only had 500 members which is a very low number. The average member fee is $30 a month, that's 15g a month divided by how many people run the site, 3 or whatever.
HB7bakery: Wow, that's really good.
Me: Mmhmm, and i'm SURE we could get more than 500 members, if you're good enough that is.
HB7bakery: Haha, are you trying to profit off me?
Me: We'd all be profiting.
HB7bakery: I dunno
Me: I'll join you in a couple videos.
HB7bakery: Haha
Placing hand on lower back..
Me: How about you let me know, because if not you, we'll find someone else. Getting paid to get ****ed, what could be better?
Walks off.
I am for sure down with this idea, and this girl is freaky enough to do it.
haha. I was about to tell you that you'll be out 35 bucks in 5 daysDonJoseCantosie said:I put in 35 dollars for a no close, gonna be almost at 4th base but something at prom is gonna try to change it.
Oh wait...i actually like this member on the forum....50 bucks on the close :-D
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.