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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Talking everyday on phone? (If so) I hope it's not you who's initiating the callsSadao said:So nothing has been going on lately, pretty damn focused on HB9model right now. I may be making a mistake talking to her daily and seeing her a couple times a week so I may lay off for a week or so to get her IL back up. Was supposed to head down and have dinner with her and a few of her friends on tuesday night but I was working out and 1. I didn't want to cut my workout short, and 2. can't be too available.
varies through phone, text, myspace, facebook, aim. I actually can't think of a single time i've initiated conversation with her, so there's a plus. I've ignored a text from her just a few minutes ago saying "don't say hi to me or anything online!" after I had signed on aol and off without talking to her.Zerix said:Talking everyday on phone? (If so) I hope it's not you who's initiating the calls![]()
While it's good to remain aloof, if you're never initiating convos she is gonna stop doing her part. You should throw her a bone every now and then to keep her goin...Sadao said:varies through phone, text, myspace, facebook, aim. I actually can't think of a single time i've initiated conversation with her, so there's a plus. I've ignored a text from her just a few minutes ago saying "don't say hi to me or anything online!" after I had signed on aol and off without talking to her.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
good point.green69 said:While it's good to remain aloof, if you're never initiating convos she is gonna stop doing her part. You should throw her a bone every now and then to keep her goin...
That's actually quiet funny... seeing as how you can score more than any of those chumpsSadao said:So remember when i asked HB8.5skinny for her number and she rejected saying she had given it out 3 times that day or some stupid ****. Well, i keep getting fools coming up to me saying "so i hear hb8.5skinny totally shot you down", like probably 5 times now. This ***** is starting to piss me off because A. she has high IL and was just displaying a sense of value to me, i could have gotten it by now but i just haven't cared to. And B. **** these losers that come up to me, at least i had the balls to ask her. But in my opinion she's BRAGGING about shooting me down since it's rare and anyone else would have given it up.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
not talking about me being bored, i can't pull the whole bringing girls to parties thing since there won't be many.Zerix said:Shouldnt summer be all about fun and vacationing? Why is everyone moving away for the summer?
Get more hours at work though then if you won't have much to do.
thanks man, i'll try to get the fr's closer to what they used to be, involving conversations and whatnot, just recently only been trying to progress with hb9modelDonJoseCantosie said:I'm mad jealous of ur progress man! Very good work, half this **** i didn't even think was really that do-able. I couldn't do it...dont' got the balls for that kind of risk in the workplace. Also for these FRs, ur writing is pretty good...even if it contains some strong language..i like that way funny as hell. This is good inspiration for me to continue in the game.
I thought sosuave was wack for a while, but this FR alone is worth going to this site.
Forgot to mention, i like how you're sexual with these girls, thats a big problem with many guys out in the feild, i have this problem too, that they don't convey that they're a sexual being but...u, like fallen, got that **** covered. Keep it pimpin and want to hear more of HBModel and HBBakery.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
NICE!!Sadao said:Was at work last night and was horny as **** for some reason. I recalled me and my friend talking a couple weeks ago about how a porn site would be amazing cash flow and extremely easy to do, just need to find a girl willing to have her own site. So i stroll on over to the bakery..
Me: Yo, 100% honesty, would you ever do porn?
HB7bakery: Yes *smiles*
Me: Haha, **** yea.
HB7bakery: Yea I was going to record myself once but I forgot.
Me: What do you think of having your own site.
HB7bakery: Hmmm, not sure, would have to deal with the fact of so many people watching me.
Me: Yea but think about it, say you only had 500 members which is a very low number. The average member fee is $30 a month, that's 15g a month divided by how many people run the site, 3 or whatever.
HB7bakery: Wow, that's really good.
Me: Mmhmm, and i'm SURE we could get more than 500 members, if you're good enough that is.
HB7bakery: Haha, are you trying to profit off me?
Me: We'd all be profiting.
HB7bakery: I dunno
Me: I'll join you in a couple videos.
HB7bakery: Haha
Placing hand on lower back..
Me: How about you let me know, because if not you, we'll find someone else. Getting paid to get ****ed, what could be better?
Walks off.
I am for sure down with this idea, and this girl is freaky enough to do it.
haha. I was about to tell you that you'll be out 35 bucks in 5 daysDonJoseCantosie said:I put in 35 dollars for a no close, gonna be almost at 4th base but something at prom is gonna try to change it.
Oh wait...i actually like this member on the forum....50 bucks on the close :-D
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.