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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
So nothing has been going on lately, pretty damn focused on HB9model right now. I may be making a mistake talking to her daily and seeing her a couple times a week so I may lay off for a week or so to get her IL back up. Was supposed to head down and have dinner with her and a few of her friends on tuesday night but I was working out and 1. I didn't want to cut my workout short, and 2. can't be too available.
varies through phone, text, myspace, facebook, aim. I actually can't think of a single time i've initiated conversation with her, so there's a plus. I've ignored a text from her just a few minutes ago saying "don't say hi to me or anything online!" after I had signed on aol and off without talking to her.Zerix said:Talking everyday on phone? (If so) I hope it's not you who's initiating the calls
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
So remember when i asked HB8.5skinny for her number and she rejected saying she had given it out 3 times that day or some stupid ****. Well, i keep getting fools coming up to me saying "so i hear hb8.5skinny totally shot you down", like probably 5 times now. This ***** is starting to piss me off because A. she has high IL and was just displaying a sense of value to me, i could have gotten it by now but i just haven't cared to. And B. **** these losers that come up to me, at least i had the balls to ask her. But in my opinion she's BRAGGING about shooting me down since it's rare and anyone else would have given it up.
edit: HB9model is back at UCSB tonight partying it up with a couple friends. She didn't invite me but i'm not thinking anything of it, probably because she tried to meet with me twice this week and i wasn't able to, so maybe she gave up. Also, i think it's sort of a girls night out thing and i hate to be the fool that crashes that ****. And finally, we aren't exclusive, so i really have nothing to worry about whatsoever, she's her own woman for now. Gonna catch up on some well deserved rest and call her in the morning to join me for breakfast or lunch (keep in mind i'm merely inviting her to tag along with ME, rather than making it sound like a date.)
edit: HB9model is back at UCSB tonight partying it up with a couple friends. She didn't invite me but i'm not thinking anything of it, probably because she tried to meet with me twice this week and i wasn't able to, so maybe she gave up. Also, i think it's sort of a girls night out thing and i hate to be the fool that crashes that ****. And finally, we aren't exclusive, so i really have nothing to worry about whatsoever, she's her own woman for now. Gonna catch up on some well deserved rest and call her in the morning to join me for breakfast or lunch (keep in mind i'm merely inviting her to tag along with ME, rather than making it sound like a date.)
I almost went off on this fool who brought it up because i know for a fact he's a huge AFC (his ex gf is HB7straight, you know, the one that ****ing stalks me? and she tells me stories), but i restrained myself because i'm a cool cat like that and i didn't want to hurt his feelings.
So i've got a little bit of a problem. Summer is coming up and everyone is moving away for college (myself included, oh yea, moving to santa barbara now instead of arizona) and weekends won't be as exciting or crackin as it is now. Might be in a slump as to where to bring/meet up with chicks since i'm not too into the formal "date" thing. Things will be amazing again in the fall when college life starts, but until then weekends will be pretty dead.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
DonJoseCantosie
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I'm mad jealous of ur progress man! Very good work, half this **** i didn't even think was really that do-able. I couldn't do it...dont' got the balls for that kind of risk in the workplace. Also for these FRs, ur writing is pretty good...even if it contains some strong language..i like that way funny as hell. This is good inspiration for me to continue in the game.
I thought sosuave was wack for a while, but this FR alone is worth going to this site.
Forgot to mention, i like how you're sexual with these girls, thats a big problem with many guys out in the feild, i have this problem too, that they don't convey that they're a sexual being but...u, like fallen, got that **** covered. Keep it pimpin and want to hear more of HBModel and HBBakery.
I thought sosuave was wack for a while, but this FR alone is worth going to this site.
Forgot to mention, i like how you're sexual with these girls, thats a big problem with many guys out in the feild, i have this problem too, that they don't convey that they're a sexual being but...u, like fallen, got that **** covered. Keep it pimpin and want to hear more of HBModel and HBBakery.
Was at work last night and was horny as **** for some reason. I recalled me and my friend talking a couple weeks ago about how a porn site would be amazing cash flow and extremely easy to do, just need to find a girl willing to have her own site. So i stroll on over to the bakery..
Me: Yo, 100% honesty, would you ever do porn?
HB7bakery: Yes *smiles*
Me: Haha, **** yea.
HB7bakery: Yea I was going to record myself once but I forgot.
Me: What do you think of having your own site.
HB7bakery: Hmmm, not sure, would have to deal with the fact of so many people watching me.
Me: Yea but think about it, say you only had 500 members which is a very low number. The average member fee is $30 a month, that's 15g a month divided by how many people run the site, 3 or whatever.
HB7bakery: Wow, that's really good.
Me: Mmhmm, and i'm SURE we could get more than 500 members, if you're good enough that is.
HB7bakery: Haha, are you trying to profit off me?
Me: We'd all be profiting.
HB7bakery: I dunno
Me: I'll join you in a couple videos.
HB7bakery: Haha
Placing hand on lower back..
Me: How about you let me know, because if not you, we'll find someone else. Getting paid to get ****ed, what could be better?
Walks off.
I am for sure down with this idea, and this girl is freaky enough to do it.
Me: Yo, 100% honesty, would you ever do porn?
HB7bakery: Yes *smiles*
Me: Haha, **** yea.
HB7bakery: Yea I was going to record myself once but I forgot.
Me: What do you think of having your own site.
HB7bakery: Hmmm, not sure, would have to deal with the fact of so many people watching me.
Me: Yea but think about it, say you only had 500 members which is a very low number. The average member fee is $30 a month, that's 15g a month divided by how many people run the site, 3 or whatever.
HB7bakery: Wow, that's really good.
Me: Mmhmm, and i'm SURE we could get more than 500 members, if you're good enough that is.
HB7bakery: Haha, are you trying to profit off me?
Me: We'd all be profiting.
HB7bakery: I dunno
Me: I'll join you in a couple videos.
HB7bakery: Haha
Placing hand on lower back..
Me: How about you let me know, because if not you, we'll find someone else. Getting paid to get ****ed, what could be better?
Walks off.
I am for sure down with this idea, and this girl is freaky enough to do it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
**** I hate emotions sometimes.
Ok so a couple days ago a great friend of mine from san fran tells me he's going to spend the weekend in santa barbara and wants to party with me. So we make plans to chill on friday(tonight) and i go ahead and invite hb9model and her good friend, they are in and willing to drive as well. So friday morning I get a call from my friend saying he's not going to make it down this weekend. I proceed to tell hb9model but she's still down to go up there and party, i agree but have to work until 9:30pm so they can either wait for me or i'll meet them there, she says for me to meet them cause they want to leave at 7:30 or so. I then get a couple other friends to come up with me but last minute they cancel as well, so it's lookin like i'm gonna roll up there solo and meet up with hb9model and her friend. So i call to find out what time she's gonna be there, no answer and I don't leave messages. An hour or more later I send her a text asking if she's on her way up, no response... So now i'm kickin it at home and wondering wtf, i know her IL is high and this whole thing originally was me inviting her to come up to UCSB with me and party, so it's kind of confusing. I sure as **** won't be contacting her anytime soon, the ball is in her court.
Ok so a couple days ago a great friend of mine from san fran tells me he's going to spend the weekend in santa barbara and wants to party with me. So we make plans to chill on friday(tonight) and i go ahead and invite hb9model and her good friend, they are in and willing to drive as well. So friday morning I get a call from my friend saying he's not going to make it down this weekend. I proceed to tell hb9model but she's still down to go up there and party, i agree but have to work until 9:30pm so they can either wait for me or i'll meet them there, she says for me to meet them cause they want to leave at 7:30 or so. I then get a couple other friends to come up with me but last minute they cancel as well, so it's lookin like i'm gonna roll up there solo and meet up with hb9model and her friend. So i call to find out what time she's gonna be there, no answer and I don't leave messages. An hour or more later I send her a text asking if she's on her way up, no response... So now i'm kickin it at home and wondering wtf, i know her IL is high and this whole thing originally was me inviting her to come up to UCSB with me and party, so it's kind of confusing. I sure as **** won't be contacting her anytime soon, the ball is in her court.
ok so she messages me on myspace and then aim tonight. Apparently she had called me back but i didn't answer (believable because she contacted me asking what happened to me last night and why i didn't call back, also because i don't get reception for **** at my work.). So this is good news because she didn't ditch me, but her night did turn out a lot different than it would have if i had been there. Apparently her and her 2 friends got split up from the group and ended up at some house in the jacuzzi with like 4 dudes. Not too happy about that, but hey, she's not my girlfriend and she didn't give me reason to believe she hooked up with anyone. This upcoming Friday is her prom and i'll know exactly how she feels about me after that night, so i'm looking forward to it. Almost positive i'll have an F close since she's hinted around about it and we've hooked up before.
DonJoseCantosie
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I put in 35 dollars for a no close, gonna be almost at 4th base but something at prom is gonna try to change it.
Oh wait...i actually like this member on the forum....50 bucks on the close :-D
Oh wait...i actually like this member on the forum....50 bucks on the close :-D
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.