"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJ=male 'attention wh0re'?

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Is a woman that we label to be an 'attention wh0re' not just the female equivalent of a DJ?

What universal characteristics does an 'attention wh0re' usually have;
1 attractive
2 lots of guy friends
3 flirtatious by nature
4 thrives on the attention of guys
5 skilled at manipulating guys for her own benefit

Now reverse this, does that not describe a DJ?

Yet how many times have you warned or have been warned to avoid a woman like this? What would it be like if all the women out there avoided any guy that possessed these same qualities?

I for one, do not look down on any woman that many would describe as an attention wh0re, because the only thing she is guilty of is being the female version of me, she just requires an enhanced set of skills to deal with her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well then I'll just stop being a player.

Why don't you piss off if you can't write anything relevant .
 

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Originally posted by crotchrocket
Is a woman that we label to be an 'attention wh0re' not just the female equivalent of a DJ?

What universal characteristics does an 'attention wh0re' usually have;
1 attractive
2 lots of guy friends
3 flirtatious by nature
4 thrives on the attention of guys
5 skilled at manipulating guys for her own benefit

Now reverse this, does that not describe a DJ?

Yet how many times have you warned or have been warned to avoid a woman like this? What would it be like if all the women out there avoided any guy that possessed these same qualities?

I for one, do not look down on any woman that many would describe as an attention wh0re, because the only thing she is guilty of is being the female version of me, she just requires an enhanced set of skills to deal with her.
1) We can't help it that we're so sexy
2) Friends are friends, it doesn't matter to DJ's whether they are male or female
3) Yea, so? Who wants to be boring and serious all the time?
4) Sorry, DJ's don't thrive off the attention of girls. We are focused with our own lives, therefore we have better things to do than worry about if "Jenny saw how I was dressed today".
5) Manipulation isn't needed. Again, you're really can't seem to grasp the true point of being a DJ. It's about enjoying your life to the fullest, going after what you want and having the confidence to achieve anything you desire. Manipulation and attention whoring is petty and beneath a DJ. If bystanders take notice, good for them, but it won't make a lick of difference in how a DJ would act.
 

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Everybody on here is in denial, it's the same thing, the funny thing is it sounds like it's something to be ashamed of, but it's not, quite the opposite actually you should be proud of it.

What I am saying in all this, is everybody needs to stop bashing women for doing the same things we do. How many times have you read on here, "she's an attention wh0re, so don't bother, you should NEXT her"? Why, because she's not the female version of AFC? She's too much of a challenge? Since when does an alpha male back down from a challenge?

Did I hurt your feelings there guys, aw I'm so sorry, go ahead and flame me again if it makes the hurt go away.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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attention *****s try to get attention, they thrive off attention, so when we tease and ignore women, when we let them chase by steping back and ignoring them, how are we being attention *****s
 
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Originally posted by crotchrocket
Is a woman that we label to be an 'attention wh0re' not just the female equivalent of a DJ?

What universal characteristics does an 'attention wh0re' usually have;
1 attractive
2 lots of guy friends
3 flirtatious by nature
4 thrives on the attention of guys
5 skilled at manipulating guys for her own benefit

Now reverse this, does that not describe a DJ?

Yet how many times have you warned or have been warned to avoid a woman like this? What would it be like if all the women out there avoided any guy that possessed these same qualities?

I for one, do not look down on any woman that many would describe as an attention wh0re, because the only thing she is guilty of is being the female version of me, she just requires an enhanced set of skills to deal with her.
1. I don't mean to be rude...but who the hell cares!!!

2. A man can't be a ***** cause that is a feminine term. It's like calling a man a bytch. Who would call an apple a orange?

3. This is one of the problems with todays men. You poor cats have been sold down the river. Women have got you feeling like you should be a certain way. They have gotten you guys to accept certain labels (which should have NO power over you) and feeling bad about being called a certain label.

4. I revel or used to in being a player. Hell I still am one. I just met a girl last night kissed her with a few minutes of meeting her...turned down a 3 some opportunity with her and her girlfriend...and took her home and had sex with her 3 times...and woulda done it a 4th if my time this morning wasn't short...So calling me a attention ***** has no power over me...I just hate seeing young men buy into those false labels!!!
 
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