"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ=male 'attention wh0re'?

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Is a woman that we label to be an 'attention wh0re' not just the female equivalent of a DJ?

What universal characteristics does an 'attention wh0re' usually have;
1 attractive
2 lots of guy friends
3 flirtatious by nature
4 thrives on the attention of guys
5 skilled at manipulating guys for her own benefit

Now reverse this, does that not describe a DJ?

Yet how many times have you warned or have been warned to avoid a woman like this? What would it be like if all the women out there avoided any guy that possessed these same qualities?

I for one, do not look down on any woman that many would describe as an attention wh0re, because the only thing she is guilty of is being the female version of me, she just requires an enhanced set of skills to deal with her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well then I'll just stop being a player.

Why don't you piss off if you can't write anything relevant .
 

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Originally posted by crotchrocket
Is a woman that we label to be an 'attention wh0re' not just the female equivalent of a DJ?

What universal characteristics does an 'attention wh0re' usually have;
1 attractive
2 lots of guy friends
3 flirtatious by nature
4 thrives on the attention of guys
5 skilled at manipulating guys for her own benefit

Now reverse this, does that not describe a DJ?

Yet how many times have you warned or have been warned to avoid a woman like this? What would it be like if all the women out there avoided any guy that possessed these same qualities?

I for one, do not look down on any woman that many would describe as an attention wh0re, because the only thing she is guilty of is being the female version of me, she just requires an enhanced set of skills to deal with her.
1) We can't help it that we're so sexy
2) Friends are friends, it doesn't matter to DJ's whether they are male or female
3) Yea, so? Who wants to be boring and serious all the time?
4) Sorry, DJ's don't thrive off the attention of girls. We are focused with our own lives, therefore we have better things to do than worry about if "Jenny saw how I was dressed today".
5) Manipulation isn't needed. Again, you're really can't seem to grasp the true point of being a DJ. It's about enjoying your life to the fullest, going after what you want and having the confidence to achieve anything you desire. Manipulation and attention whoring is petty and beneath a DJ. If bystanders take notice, good for them, but it won't make a lick of difference in how a DJ would act.
 

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Everybody on here is in denial, it's the same thing, the funny thing is it sounds like it's something to be ashamed of, but it's not, quite the opposite actually you should be proud of it.

What I am saying in all this, is everybody needs to stop bashing women for doing the same things we do. How many times have you read on here, "she's an attention wh0re, so don't bother, you should NEXT her"? Why, because she's not the female version of AFC? She's too much of a challenge? Since when does an alpha male back down from a challenge?

Did I hurt your feelings there guys, aw I'm so sorry, go ahead and flame me again if it makes the hurt go away.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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attention *****s try to get attention, they thrive off attention, so when we tease and ignore women, when we let them chase by steping back and ignoring them, how are we being attention *****s
 
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Originally posted by crotchrocket
Is a woman that we label to be an 'attention wh0re' not just the female equivalent of a DJ?

What universal characteristics does an 'attention wh0re' usually have;
1 attractive
2 lots of guy friends
3 flirtatious by nature
4 thrives on the attention of guys
5 skilled at manipulating guys for her own benefit

Now reverse this, does that not describe a DJ?

Yet how many times have you warned or have been warned to avoid a woman like this? What would it be like if all the women out there avoided any guy that possessed these same qualities?

I for one, do not look down on any woman that many would describe as an attention wh0re, because the only thing she is guilty of is being the female version of me, she just requires an enhanced set of skills to deal with her.
1. I don't mean to be rude...but who the hell cares!!!

2. A man can't be a ***** cause that is a feminine term. It's like calling a man a bytch. Who would call an apple a orange?

3. This is one of the problems with todays men. You poor cats have been sold down the river. Women have got you feeling like you should be a certain way. They have gotten you guys to accept certain labels (which should have NO power over you) and feeling bad about being called a certain label.

4. I revel or used to in being a player. Hell I still am one. I just met a girl last night kissed her with a few minutes of meeting her...turned down a 3 some opportunity with her and her girlfriend...and took her home and had sex with her 3 times...and woulda done it a 4th if my time this morning wasn't short...So calling me a attention ***** has no power over me...I just hate seeing young men buy into those false labels!!!
 
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