"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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aznbreakerjrey

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Ok, I began to actively go out to w/ friends with the main intention of macking about three weeks ago. At first, I was piss-scared to approach. But then I finally snapped and got the balls. And I kept on approaching, improving my conversational skills and confidence. And just tonight, while my friends and I were chillin looking for girls to mack on, I see this cute chick on the bus stop. It went something like this:
Me: Hi, what's your name?
Her: Alice ...
Me: (smile) I'm John (shakes her hand)

... we talk about ish, blah blah, yadda yadda ...

Me: I gotta go now, let me get your number.
Her: Ok, you have some paper?

BANG! Number baby! Success, woohoo. And this is only the beginning ...


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"You live, you learn?" No, it is only if you learn the ways of the DJ when you can truly live...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Barbillus

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hey great job azn!

Building some rapport before getting the number is always key.

I personally disagree with what some people say here with just going up to a girl "hey whats your name?" "well i gotta go, whats your number?"

Building a little rapport (2-3 min) is always good and usually increases your chances of getting that number.
 
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Thanks for the support Barbillus. Yeah, you're right. I definitely agree that one should develop some rapport with the girl before getting the digits. That way, you can have something to base your first phone conversation on.
 
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That's what it's all about. It's no use just reading the stuff on this site you HAVE TO put it into practice!

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BE THE MAN AND TAKE WHAT YOU WANT WITH AGGRESSION

YES YOU MORON : SHE LIKES YOU! LISTEN VERY WELL : SHE LIKES YOU. SHE WANTS YOU TO GRAB YOUR FUKKING BALLS AND MAKE A GODDAMMM MOVE.

LIFE IS A DEMOLITION DERBY : YOU JUST GOTTA GRAB YOUR FUKKING BALLS

By being clear right away (" what’s your phone number " = I’m interested) you come off as a MAN. Not a boy. A MAN. A man who can grab his balls. -CHALLENGE GUY
 
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thats cool man, glad you came to this site? it really pays off. congrats you have taken your first step into a bigger world.


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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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