"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ exercises finally have results!

aznbreakerjrey

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Ok, I began to actively go out to w/ friends with the main intention of macking about three weeks ago. At first, I was piss-scared to approach. But then I finally snapped and got the balls. And I kept on approaching, improving my conversational skills and confidence. And just tonight, while my friends and I were chillin looking for girls to mack on, I see this cute chick on the bus stop. It went something like this:
Me: Hi, what's your name?
Her: Alice ...
Me: (smile) I'm John (shakes her hand)

... we talk about ish, blah blah, yadda yadda ...

Me: I gotta go now, let me get your number.
Her: Ok, you have some paper?

BANG! Number baby! Success, woohoo. And this is only the beginning ...


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"You live, you learn?" No, it is only if you learn the ways of the DJ when you can truly live...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Barbillus

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hey great job azn!

Building some rapport before getting the number is always key.

I personally disagree with what some people say here with just going up to a girl "hey whats your name?" "well i gotta go, whats your number?"

Building a little rapport (2-3 min) is always good and usually increases your chances of getting that number.
 

aznbreakerjrey

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Thanks for the support Barbillus. Yeah, you're right. I definitely agree that one should develop some rapport with the girl before getting the digits. That way, you can have something to base your first phone conversation on.
 

De La Soul

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That's what it's all about. It's no use just reading the stuff on this site you HAVE TO put it into practice!

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BE THE MAN AND TAKE WHAT YOU WANT WITH AGGRESSION

YES YOU MORON : SHE LIKES YOU! LISTEN VERY WELL : SHE LIKES YOU. SHE WANTS YOU TO GRAB YOUR FUKKING BALLS AND MAKE A GODDAMMM MOVE.

LIFE IS A DEMOLITION DERBY : YOU JUST GOTTA GRAB YOUR FUKKING BALLS

By being clear right away (" what’s your phone number " = I’m interested) you come off as a MAN. Not a boy. A MAN. A man who can grab his balls. -CHALLENGE GUY
 

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thats cool man, glad you came to this site? it really pays off. congrats you have taken your first step into a bigger world.


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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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