"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ exercises finally have results!

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aznbreakerjrey

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Ok, I began to actively go out to w/ friends with the main intention of macking about three weeks ago. At first, I was piss-scared to approach. But then I finally snapped and got the balls. And I kept on approaching, improving my conversational skills and confidence. And just tonight, while my friends and I were chillin looking for girls to mack on, I see this cute chick on the bus stop. It went something like this:
Me: Hi, what's your name?
Her: Alice ...
Me: (smile) I'm John (shakes her hand)

... we talk about ish, blah blah, yadda yadda ...

Me: I gotta go now, let me get your number.
Her: Ok, you have some paper?

BANG! Number baby! Success, woohoo. And this is only the beginning ...


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hey great job azn!

Building some rapport before getting the number is always key.

I personally disagree with what some people say here with just going up to a girl "hey whats your name?" "well i gotta go, whats your number?"

Building a little rapport (2-3 min) is always good and usually increases your chances of getting that number.
 
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Thanks for the support Barbillus. Yeah, you're right. I definitely agree that one should develop some rapport with the girl before getting the digits. That way, you can have something to base your first phone conversation on.
 
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That's what it's all about. It's no use just reading the stuff on this site you HAVE TO put it into practice!

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BE THE MAN AND TAKE WHAT YOU WANT WITH AGGRESSION

YES YOU MORON : SHE LIKES YOU! LISTEN VERY WELL : SHE LIKES YOU. SHE WANTS YOU TO GRAB YOUR FUKKING BALLS AND MAKE A GODDAMMM MOVE.

LIFE IS A DEMOLITION DERBY : YOU JUST GOTTA GRAB YOUR FUKKING BALLS

By being clear right away (" what’s your phone number " = I’m interested) you come off as a MAN. Not a boy. A MAN. A man who can grab his balls. -CHALLENGE GUY
 
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thats cool man, glad you came to this site? it really pays off. congrats you have taken your first step into a bigger world.


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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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