Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

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aznbreakerjrey

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Ok, I began to actively go out to w/ friends with the main intention of macking about three weeks ago. At first, I was piss-scared to approach. But then I finally snapped and got the balls. And I kept on approaching, improving my conversational skills and confidence. And just tonight, while my friends and I were chillin looking for girls to mack on, I see this cute chick on the bus stop. It went something like this:
Me: Hi, what's your name?
Her: Alice ...
Me: (smile) I'm John (shakes her hand)

... we talk about ish, blah blah, yadda yadda ...

Me: I gotta go now, let me get your number.
Her: Ok, you have some paper?

BANG! Number baby! Success, woohoo. And this is only the beginning ...


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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Barbillus

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hey great job azn!

Building some rapport before getting the number is always key.

I personally disagree with what some people say here with just going up to a girl "hey whats your name?" "well i gotta go, whats your number?"

Building a little rapport (2-3 min) is always good and usually increases your chances of getting that number.
 

aznbreakerjrey

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Thanks for the support Barbillus. Yeah, you're right. I definitely agree that one should develop some rapport with the girl before getting the digits. That way, you can have something to base your first phone conversation on.
 

De La Soul

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That's what it's all about. It's no use just reading the stuff on this site you HAVE TO put it into practice!

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BE THE MAN AND TAKE WHAT YOU WANT WITH AGGRESSION

YES YOU MORON : SHE LIKES YOU! LISTEN VERY WELL : SHE LIKES YOU. SHE WANTS YOU TO GRAB YOUR FUKKING BALLS AND MAKE A GODDAMMM MOVE.

LIFE IS A DEMOLITION DERBY : YOU JUST GOTTA GRAB YOUR FUKKING BALLS

By being clear right away (" what’s your phone number " = I’m interested) you come off as a MAN. Not a boy. A MAN. A man who can grab his balls. -CHALLENGE GUY
 

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thats cool man, glad you came to this site? it really pays off. congrats you have taken your first step into a bigger world.


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"Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer" ~ Godfather part II
 
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