"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ Brothers, Help me get this girl who is a MODEL

spax

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Hey guys,

Recently I was at this really lame party and I saw this hot girl, but I did not talk to her, I really couldn't be bothered. Then the next day, that girl put up some pics on her facebook from the party, and tagged some of my friends in it, so I was able to go through her album on my facebook, even though we arent friends. Upon doing so, I discovered she is a professional model who does magazines, photoshoots, advertisements, etc. Shes quite tall and slender and could be a cat walk model, except shes not tooo skinny.

I looked through her friends list on facebook, and out of her 200 friends, only like 2 of them are guys, and I get the impression she has no boyfriend, let alone been kissed.

Now, considering we didnt talk or get introduced to each other on the night of the party, how can I contact her on Facebook, and introduce myself without coming off as sleazy, desperate etc? I want my first contact with her to present me as an ALPHA male, who she should feel lucky talking to.

She is totally worth it, and will probably be a well-known model one day, and I want to be the first to have her ;)

Help appreciated. Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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OrangeCrusader

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Step 1, as usual, is to drop her off that sky-high pedestal and treat her like any other girl, after that it's fairly simple. Looks are only looks, and only 10% (at best) of what makes a person who they are.

Should've approached at the party, since it's harder to work up interest now, but meh. At least mention that you saw her at the party, so you're not like one of the likely dozens of guys who message her within a week. Hm....
 

spax

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Ok well, there were only like 3 guys at the party, I was one of them.

Just through seeing some of her pics, she seems really innocent, and given that she has like no guys on her facebook, I can assume shes never been kissed.

We are both 18.
 

epicwinner

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don't try to think too much about her background dude... you should have approached her and treated her just like any other girl

this will really set you apart from most other guys
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pathgen

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2 out of 200 of her friends are guys? that doesnt sound right for a cute girl. Maybe she is a lesbian?
 

jacob

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add her and inside the message box put "Hey Tom's my friend too, how do you know Tom?"

Oh that's for myspace.
 
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