"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ Brothers, Help me get this girl who is a MODEL

spax

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Hey guys,

Recently I was at this really lame party and I saw this hot girl, but I did not talk to her, I really couldn't be bothered. Then the next day, that girl put up some pics on her facebook from the party, and tagged some of my friends in it, so I was able to go through her album on my facebook, even though we arent friends. Upon doing so, I discovered she is a professional model who does magazines, photoshoots, advertisements, etc. Shes quite tall and slender and could be a cat walk model, except shes not tooo skinny.

I looked through her friends list on facebook, and out of her 200 friends, only like 2 of them are guys, and I get the impression she has no boyfriend, let alone been kissed.

Now, considering we didnt talk or get introduced to each other on the night of the party, how can I contact her on Facebook, and introduce myself without coming off as sleazy, desperate etc? I want my first contact with her to present me as an ALPHA male, who she should feel lucky talking to.

She is totally worth it, and will probably be a well-known model one day, and I want to be the first to have her ;)

Help appreciated. Thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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OrangeCrusader

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Step 1, as usual, is to drop her off that sky-high pedestal and treat her like any other girl, after that it's fairly simple. Looks are only looks, and only 10% (at best) of what makes a person who they are.

Should've approached at the party, since it's harder to work up interest now, but meh. At least mention that you saw her at the party, so you're not like one of the likely dozens of guys who message her within a week. Hm....
 

spax

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Ok well, there were only like 3 guys at the party, I was one of them.

Just through seeing some of her pics, she seems really innocent, and given that she has like no guys on her facebook, I can assume shes never been kissed.

We are both 18.
 

epicwinner

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don't try to think too much about her background dude... you should have approached her and treated her just like any other girl

this will really set you apart from most other guys
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pathgen

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2 out of 200 of her friends are guys? that doesnt sound right for a cute girl. Maybe she is a lesbian?
 

jacob

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add her and inside the message box put "Hey Tom's my friend too, how do you know Tom?"

Oh that's for myspace.
 
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