"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJ Brothers, Help me get this girl who is a MODEL

spax

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Hey guys,

Recently I was at this really lame party and I saw this hot girl, but I did not talk to her, I really couldn't be bothered. Then the next day, that girl put up some pics on her facebook from the party, and tagged some of my friends in it, so I was able to go through her album on my facebook, even though we arent friends. Upon doing so, I discovered she is a professional model who does magazines, photoshoots, advertisements, etc. Shes quite tall and slender and could be a cat walk model, except shes not tooo skinny.

I looked through her friends list on facebook, and out of her 200 friends, only like 2 of them are guys, and I get the impression she has no boyfriend, let alone been kissed.

Now, considering we didnt talk or get introduced to each other on the night of the party, how can I contact her on Facebook, and introduce myself without coming off as sleazy, desperate etc? I want my first contact with her to present me as an ALPHA male, who she should feel lucky talking to.

She is totally worth it, and will probably be a well-known model one day, and I want to be the first to have her ;)

Help appreciated. Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OrangeCrusader

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Step 1, as usual, is to drop her off that sky-high pedestal and treat her like any other girl, after that it's fairly simple. Looks are only looks, and only 10% (at best) of what makes a person who they are.

Should've approached at the party, since it's harder to work up interest now, but meh. At least mention that you saw her at the party, so you're not like one of the likely dozens of guys who message her within a week. Hm....
 

spax

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Ok well, there were only like 3 guys at the party, I was one of them.

Just through seeing some of her pics, she seems really innocent, and given that she has like no guys on her facebook, I can assume shes never been kissed.

We are both 18.
 

epicwinner

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don't try to think too much about her background dude... you should have approached her and treated her just like any other girl

this will really set you apart from most other guys
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pathgen

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2 out of 200 of her friends are guys? that doesnt sound right for a cute girl. Maybe she is a lesbian?
 

jacob

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add her and inside the message box put "Hey Tom's my friend too, how do you know Tom?"

Oh that's for myspace.
 
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