"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ Brothers, Help me get this girl who is a MODEL

spax

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Hey guys,

Recently I was at this really lame party and I saw this hot girl, but I did not talk to her, I really couldn't be bothered. Then the next day, that girl put up some pics on her facebook from the party, and tagged some of my friends in it, so I was able to go through her album on my facebook, even though we arent friends. Upon doing so, I discovered she is a professional model who does magazines, photoshoots, advertisements, etc. Shes quite tall and slender and could be a cat walk model, except shes not tooo skinny.

I looked through her friends list on facebook, and out of her 200 friends, only like 2 of them are guys, and I get the impression she has no boyfriend, let alone been kissed.

Now, considering we didnt talk or get introduced to each other on the night of the party, how can I contact her on Facebook, and introduce myself without coming off as sleazy, desperate etc? I want my first contact with her to present me as an ALPHA male, who she should feel lucky talking to.

She is totally worth it, and will probably be a well-known model one day, and I want to be the first to have her ;)

Help appreciated. Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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OrangeCrusader

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Step 1, as usual, is to drop her off that sky-high pedestal and treat her like any other girl, after that it's fairly simple. Looks are only looks, and only 10% (at best) of what makes a person who they are.

Should've approached at the party, since it's harder to work up interest now, but meh. At least mention that you saw her at the party, so you're not like one of the likely dozens of guys who message her within a week. Hm....
 

spax

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Ok well, there were only like 3 guys at the party, I was one of them.

Just through seeing some of her pics, she seems really innocent, and given that she has like no guys on her facebook, I can assume shes never been kissed.

We are both 18.
 

epicwinner

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don't try to think too much about her background dude... you should have approached her and treated her just like any other girl

this will really set you apart from most other guys
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pathgen

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2 out of 200 of her friends are guys? that doesnt sound right for a cute girl. Maybe she is a lesbian?
 

jacob

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add her and inside the message box put "Hey Tom's my friend too, how do you know Tom?"

Oh that's for myspace.
 
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