"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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reading the DJ bible - i noticed yea i learn some stuff but most of its like there is no right answer-everybody opinion is differ.DJ bible is so long too. takes forever to read.
also i guys try these forums www.enotalone.com, www.loveshack.org, www.lovingyou.com , i think em quite useful and they have female memebers in em unlike this one which i find all of em are guys.
reading another posts sayin don;t be desperate but show interest but how am i suppose to do that. how do u show interest in a gal without being desperate . example anyone
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by joe45
reading the DJ bible - i noticed yea i learn some stuff but most of its like there is no right answer-everybody opinion is differ.DJ bible is so long too. takes forever to read.
also i guys try these forums www.enotalone.com, www.loveshack.org, www.lovingyou.com , i think em quite useful and they have female memebers in em unlike this one which i find all of em are guys.
reading another posts sayin don;t be desperate but show interest but how am i suppose to do that. how do u show interest in a gal without being desperate . example anyone
Interest but not desparate goes along these lines.

Don't tell her you want to have a LTR first, don't tell her you love her first, don't call her all the time, see her when your free (no more than 1-2x / week for the first 4 weeks, etc, etc, etc,.

Real life example was last night I waited 8 days to call this HB8.5 . She was estatic to hear from me and said she didn't think I would call. I don't recommend waiting 8 days but I showed interest by calling her. I showed I wasn't desparate but waiting at least a few days.
 

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Originally posted by joe45
reading the DJ bible - i noticed yea i learn some stuff but most of its like there is no right answer-everybody opinion is differ.DJ bible is so long too. takes forever to read.
Imagine that. You mean to tell me that not everything will work the same on everyone, so people have come up with different approaches to solving their problems? :p By the way - if something is important to you, it doesn't matter how long it takes to read; it's worth it.

Moved to Anything Else...
 

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It's long but it's thorough. Quick fixes are very limiting.
 

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DJ bible is so long too. takes forever to read.

There is no such thing is a quick fix when it comes to relationships and women.

What? Are you expecting operating instructions for a fork?
Ever wonder why there isn't a discussion forum for forks?

If you want real and lasting results, get off your ass and do some work.

You get what you put in.

Kaine
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by AverageFC
You havent read the whole bible yet have you? :rolleyes:


I haven't, and probably never will.
 
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