"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ bible is long

joe45

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reading the DJ bible - i noticed yea i learn some stuff but most of its like there is no right answer-everybody opinion is differ.DJ bible is so long too. takes forever to read.
also i guys try these forums www.enotalone.com, www.loveshack.org, www.lovingyou.com , i think em quite useful and they have female memebers in em unlike this one which i find all of em are guys.
reading another posts sayin don;t be desperate but show interest but how am i suppose to do that. how do u show interest in a gal without being desperate . example anyone
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by joe45
reading the DJ bible - i noticed yea i learn some stuff but most of its like there is no right answer-everybody opinion is differ.DJ bible is so long too. takes forever to read.
also i guys try these forums www.enotalone.com, www.loveshack.org, www.lovingyou.com , i think em quite useful and they have female memebers in em unlike this one which i find all of em are guys.
reading another posts sayin don;t be desperate but show interest but how am i suppose to do that. how do u show interest in a gal without being desperate . example anyone
Interest but not desparate goes along these lines.

Don't tell her you want to have a LTR first, don't tell her you love her first, don't call her all the time, see her when your free (no more than 1-2x / week for the first 4 weeks, etc, etc, etc,.

Real life example was last night I waited 8 days to call this HB8.5 . She was estatic to hear from me and said she didn't think I would call. I don't recommend waiting 8 days but I showed interest by calling her. I showed I wasn't desparate but waiting at least a few days.
 

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Originally posted by joe45
reading the DJ bible - i noticed yea i learn some stuff but most of its like there is no right answer-everybody opinion is differ.DJ bible is so long too. takes forever to read.
Imagine that. You mean to tell me that not everything will work the same on everyone, so people have come up with different approaches to solving their problems? :p By the way - if something is important to you, it doesn't matter how long it takes to read; it's worth it.

Moved to Anything Else...
 

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It's long but it's thorough. Quick fixes are very limiting.
 

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DJ bible is so long too. takes forever to read.

There is no such thing is a quick fix when it comes to relationships and women.

What? Are you expecting operating instructions for a fork?
Ever wonder why there isn't a discussion forum for forks?

If you want real and lasting results, get off your ass and do some work.

You get what you put in.

Kaine
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by AverageFC
You havent read the whole bible yet have you? :rolleyes:


I haven't, and probably never will.
 
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