"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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reading the DJ bible - i noticed yea i learn some stuff but most of its like there is no right answer-everybody opinion is differ.DJ bible is so long too. takes forever to read.
also i guys try these forums www.enotalone.com, www.loveshack.org, www.lovingyou.com , i think em quite useful and they have female memebers in em unlike this one which i find all of em are guys.
reading another posts sayin don;t be desperate but show interest but how am i suppose to do that. how do u show interest in a gal without being desperate . example anyone
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by joe45
reading the DJ bible - i noticed yea i learn some stuff but most of its like there is no right answer-everybody opinion is differ.DJ bible is so long too. takes forever to read.
also i guys try these forums www.enotalone.com, www.loveshack.org, www.lovingyou.com , i think em quite useful and they have female memebers in em unlike this one which i find all of em are guys.
reading another posts sayin don;t be desperate but show interest but how am i suppose to do that. how do u show interest in a gal without being desperate . example anyone
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Interest but not desparate goes along these lines.

Don't tell her you want to have a LTR first, don't tell her you love her first, don't call her all the time, see her when your free (no more than 1-2x / week for the first 4 weeks, etc, etc, etc,.

Real life example was last night I waited 8 days to call this HB8.5 . She was estatic to hear from me and said she didn't think I would call. I don't recommend waiting 8 days but I showed interest by calling her. I showed I wasn't desparate but waiting at least a few days.
 
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Originally posted by joe45
reading the DJ bible - i noticed yea i learn some stuff but most of its like there is no right answer-everybody opinion is differ.DJ bible is so long too. takes forever to read.
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Imagine that. You mean to tell me that not everything will work the same on everyone, so people have come up with different approaches to solving their problems? :p By the way - if something is important to you, it doesn't matter how long it takes to read; it's worth it.

Moved to Anything Else...
 
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It's long but it's thorough. Quick fixes are very limiting.
 
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DJ bible is so long too. takes forever to read.
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There is no such thing is a quick fix when it comes to relationships and women.

What? Are you expecting operating instructions for a fork?
Ever wonder why there isn't a discussion forum for forks?

If you want real and lasting results, get off your ass and do some work.

You get what you put in.

Kaine
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by AverageFC
You havent read the whole bible yet have you? :rolleyes:
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I haven't, and probably never will.
 
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