“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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reading the DJ bible - i noticed yea i learn some stuff but most of its like there is no right answer-everybody opinion is differ.DJ bible is so long too. takes forever to read.
also i guys try these forums www.enotalone.com, www.loveshack.org, www.lovingyou.com , i think em quite useful and they have female memebers in em unlike this one which i find all of em are guys.
reading another posts sayin don;t be desperate but show interest but how am i suppose to do that. how do u show interest in a gal without being desperate . example anyone
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by joe45
reading the DJ bible - i noticed yea i learn some stuff but most of its like there is no right answer-everybody opinion is differ.DJ bible is so long too. takes forever to read.
also i guys try these forums www.enotalone.com, www.loveshack.org, www.lovingyou.com , i think em quite useful and they have female memebers in em unlike this one which i find all of em are guys.
reading another posts sayin don;t be desperate but show interest but how am i suppose to do that. how do u show interest in a gal without being desperate . example anyone
Interest but not desparate goes along these lines.

Don't tell her you want to have a LTR first, don't tell her you love her first, don't call her all the time, see her when your free (no more than 1-2x / week for the first 4 weeks, etc, etc, etc,.

Real life example was last night I waited 8 days to call this HB8.5 . She was estatic to hear from me and said she didn't think I would call. I don't recommend waiting 8 days but I showed interest by calling her. I showed I wasn't desparate but waiting at least a few days.
 

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Originally posted by joe45
reading the DJ bible - i noticed yea i learn some stuff but most of its like there is no right answer-everybody opinion is differ.DJ bible is so long too. takes forever to read.
Imagine that. You mean to tell me that not everything will work the same on everyone, so people have come up with different approaches to solving their problems? :p By the way - if something is important to you, it doesn't matter how long it takes to read; it's worth it.

Moved to Anything Else...
 

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It's long but it's thorough. Quick fixes are very limiting.
 

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DJ bible is so long too. takes forever to read.

There is no such thing is a quick fix when it comes to relationships and women.

What? Are you expecting operating instructions for a fork?
Ever wonder why there isn't a discussion forum for forks?

If you want real and lasting results, get off your ass and do some work.

You get what you put in.

Kaine
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by AverageFC
You havent read the whole bible yet have you? :rolleyes:


I haven't, and probably never will.
 
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