"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Divorced Dude (Not losing yourself)

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The most fooked up thing is that the only thing needed to get the ball rolling is for one side to say "I'm getting a lawyer" and it snowballs from there. I spent a pretty coin to keep the custody of my kinds, the money I could have spent on the kids.

Count yourself lucky you didn't have kinds with her. And for the future be damn sure about a women you have kids with. Of course it's easier said than done.
What do you mean? I had 2 kids. That has nothing to do with anything. When 2 people have the ability to act like mature adults and make decisions that are best for the kids, you just do it.

Typically one side is out for blood tho and all it does is cost them 50K they could have split between them. How does that make any sense.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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