Luis_Rancagua
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What does it mean when a divorce woman is still wearing her wedding ring...even way after the divorce is official. Is it a sign that she hasn't gotten over her ex???
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Divorce women who still wear wedding ring
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Luis_Rancagua
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Really!!! Through the ring (even though she's no longer married), it means that she has a fukc buddy.Falcon25 said:
It just means she doesn't like getting hit on and doesn't want a relationship. She has not only one, but probably three guys on the side. Her sexual needs are being taken care of. Right now, that's all she cares about. Ring comes off when she needs another "husband".
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Luis_Rancagua
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Thanx for the advice.
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AKA another AFC provider. She may have more than 3 guys on the side, one of them not being you. Hell, most women don't like getting hit on when they DON'T have a wedding ring on.Falcon25 said:
OP, stop running around behind this divorcee if that's what you're doing. You're gonna get your feelings hurt.
I really think marriage is overrated. That's my ruling.
Case closed.
sodbuster
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sometimes, they wear it so that the world thinks they are still married,not a single welfare mom when they are out with the kids.
penkitten
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no!
people who are divorced but still wear their wedding ring are people who are not ready for a relationship with anyone new. how can they be ready for someone new if they cant take off a ring that was given to them by someone else?
it doesn't even necessarily mean that they want their ex back... it may just mean that they are not ready to move on to anything new and that their divorce is fresh and they have issues to deal with on their own first.
people who are divorced but still wear their wedding ring are people who are not ready for a relationship with anyone new. how can they be ready for someone new if they cant take off a ring that was given to them by someone else?
it doesn't even necessarily mean that they want their ex back... it may just mean that they are not ready to move on to anything new and that their divorce is fresh and they have issues to deal with on their own first.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
People pay waaaay too much attention to wedding rings. They don't even register to me. Even thinking about them is over analysis. i.e. maybe she's married, maybe she's married but bored and wants to cheat, maybe she is not married and it's just a deterrant.