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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

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The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Divorce women who still wear wedding ring

Luis_Rancagua

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What does it mean when a divorce woman is still wearing her wedding ring...even way after the divorce is official. Is it a sign that she hasn't gotten over her ex???
 

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Night Owl

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Avoid like big plague - like sticking head in tiger mouth to find tiger

All married women are not wives....
 

Falcon25

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It means she has a fuvk buddy and is not looking to get hit on. She has someone.
 

Luis_Rancagua

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Falcon25 said:
It means she has a fuvk buddy and is not looking to get hit on. She has someone.
Really!!! Through the ring (even though she's no longer married), it means that she has a fukc buddy.
 

Falcon25

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It just means she doesn't like getting hit on and doesn't want a relationship. She has not only one, but probably three guys on the side. Her sexual needs are being taken care of. Right now, that's all she cares about. Ring comes off when she needs another "husband".
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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Falcon25 said:
It just means she doesn't like getting hit on and doesn't want a relationship. She has not only one, but probably three guys on the side. Her sexual needs are being taken care of. Right now, that's all she cares about. Ring comes off when she needs another "husband".
AKA another AFC provider. She may have more than 3 guys on the side, one of them not being you. Hell, most women don't like getting hit on when they DON'T have a wedding ring on.

OP, stop running around behind this divorcee if that's what you're doing. You're gonna get your feelings hurt.

I really think marriage is overrated. That's my ruling.

Case closed.
 

sodbuster

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sometimes, they wear it so that the world thinks they are still married,not a single welfare mom when they are out with the kids.
 

penkitten

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no!
people who are divorced but still wear their wedding ring are people who are not ready for a relationship with anyone new. how can they be ready for someone new if they cant take off a ring that was given to them by someone else?
it doesn't even necessarily mean that they want their ex back... it may just mean that they are not ready to move on to anything new and that their divorce is fresh and they have issues to deal with on their own first.
 

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penkitten said:
no!
people who are divorced but still wear their wedding ring are people who are not ready for a relationship with anyone new. how can they be ready for someone new if they cant take off a ring that was given to them by someone else?
it doesn't even necessarily mean that they want their ex back... it may just mean that they are not ready to move on to anything new and that their divorce is fresh and they have issues to deal with on their own first.
This is what I pretty much said a day ago. But yes, she is fuvking other men. No feelings, just sex. Please see post 5. Thank you.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

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badboyjmm

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Same as the girls who loves to tell certain guys that they are virgins...
 

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People pay waaaay too much attention to wedding rings. They don't even register to me. Even thinking about them is over analysis. i.e. maybe she's married, maybe she's married but bored and wants to cheat, maybe she is not married and it's just a deterrant.
 
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