Luis_Rancagua
Don Juan
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What does it mean when a divorce woman is still wearing her wedding ring...even way after the divorce is official. Is it a sign that she hasn't gotten over her ex???
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Really!!! Through the ring (even though she's no longer married), it means that she has a fukc buddy.Falcon25 said:It means she has a fuvk buddy and is not looking to get hit on. She has someone.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
AKA another AFC provider. She may have more than 3 guys on the side, one of them not being you. Hell, most women don't like getting hit on when they DON'T have a wedding ring on.Falcon25 said:It just means she doesn't like getting hit on and doesn't want a relationship. She has not only one, but probably three guys on the side. Her sexual needs are being taken care of. Right now, that's all she cares about. Ring comes off when she needs another "husband".
This is what I pretty much said a day ago. But yes, she is fuvking other men. No feelings, just sex. Please see post 5. Thank you.penkitten said:no!
people who are divorced but still wear their wedding ring are people who are not ready for a relationship with anyone new. how can they be ready for someone new if they cant take off a ring that was given to them by someone else?
it doesn't even necessarily mean that they want their ex back... it may just mean that they are not ready to move on to anything new and that their divorce is fresh and they have issues to deal with on their own first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.